With our recent return to Ukraine it seems highly appropriate to remind ourselves of what it means to adapt to the local culture, the do’s and do not’s if you will.
So here are a few Don’ts
Don’t smile at strangers. Historically, people tend to be suspicious and nothing says “i want something from you” like a great big smile. Actually, though many people have been taught to be wary of strangers, deep down Ukrainians love people and are ready to help out. We see this in a million different ways every day!
Don’t visit people empty-handed. It really doesn’t seem to matter what it is, its the thought that counts. But if you are bringing flowers for the lady, never buy an even number – even number bouquets are reserved for the funerals.
Don’t expect to be done with a meal quickly. If you are invited for dinner, expect to be around for a while. But don’t worry, the food will be great! Expect lots of sour cream, mayonnaise, potatoes and eggs.
Don’t put your feet on the coffee table. Is this really ever ok unless you’re with the most comfortable of friends?
And a few Dos
Do get dressed up, even if you are not planning anything special. Differences between Canada and Ukraine are vast in the fashion world. To keep it short, save the sweat pants for walking around the house and going to the gym. Jeans with a nice casual top are pretty safe except for those important meetings.
Do expect to pay more for some things. Once you start talking English, any unwritten prices tend to be a bit more. So make sure you have some info ahead of time or invite a friend along to keep things straight.
Do Hope! Though there have been many challenges for this new country and its people, there is much to hope for. As a people they are recovering from years of authoritarian government, this takes time and perseverance. Ukraine will do better than just survive – we know that Ukrainians can thrive!
Do shake everyone’s hand. Well not everyone. As a man, you’ll feel very awkward shaking a woman’s hand here. But don’t skip anyone when its time to say hi, even if it means interrupting a lively discussion.
Of course, this isn’t a complete list, but it’s a start. Do you know any Ukrainian cultural tips that could help us?
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