ABC & J Like…

We have had a few people ask us what our kids are into these days because their birthdays are coming up. PLEASE don’t feel like you ever have to send us gifts or anything- seriously! Mail costs are not cheap and stuff is not a huge priority for us. However, if giving is your love language then we know it helps to have a few suggestions (and really this is for their nanna and grandma :).

Jay– Anything that lights up or makes sounds.
Cassie– Videos: Angelina Ballerina, Dora, Caillou (in French), Wonderpets. Books: Phoebe Gillman books (but we have ‘The wonderful world of Jillian Jiggs’ and ‘The wonderful pigs of Jillian Jiggs’), any French Caillou books. Basically any little toys or movies or books make her excited.

Just in case you are curious here are some things we can’t really get here: Decaf coffee beans, onion soup mix, ranch dressing mix, brown sugar, vanilla, peanut butter, reeses peanut butter cups, coffee crisp, oh henry, ketchup chips (I can’t believe my wife put decaf coffee beans at the top of the list… what is this world coming to???)

Jay

First Steps!
Today Jay took his first steps. He figured out how to balance himself while Mommy and Cassie encouraged him! Way to go Jay! It is too bad that he is so sick right now. Both Cassie and Jay have runny noses and coughs. It has been a long few days in the Doerksen household.
09.Mar.11

Standing…almost walking
He stands really well now without holding on to anything. Actually he could probably walk if he tried, but he usually just sits down and crawls if he wants to go somewhere. I wouldn’t be surprised if he was walking in a few weeks. However, he hasn’t started signing yet. We are working on that one still. He’s so sweet. He is squishable and so smiley!
02.Mar.11

Cassie

Not fun any more!
So today is day 7, Cassie has gotten really good at going pee in the toilet but she hasn’t gotten the other part of toilet training down yet. I have had to clean dirty underwear three days in a row and it is nasty. Here is to hoping that tomorrow she will remember to tell me “Mommy I need to go poop.”
09.Mar.11

No more diapers
March 2, 2011- Mark down the date as the last day Cassie wore diapers (well at least during the day). She is officially 2 years and 9 months old. We are celebrating all day with balloons, candy and of course at the end of the day she gets a little gift from mom and dad! Who knew potty training would be so fun!
02.Mar.11

Buying a car… the decision!

Maybe you have asked yourself why Ben and Ang bought a new car, emphasis on new. We’ve asked ourselves that same question a few times too, but after a whole bunch of research we’ve settled the matter for ourselves. We thought you might be interested to know why.

Options:
a) bring in a car from a foreign country,
b) buy a used car here, or
c) buy a new car here.

a) We looked at bringing in a car from Canada. After all, shipping is only around $1,000. We also looked at buying a used car in Germany and driving it over. Both seemed like great options until we found out about registering it here. We could bring it in as visitors but we’d have to leave the country every 2 months. Not practical because the nearest non-visa border is no less than 6 hours away. What about registering it here? We only have a visa to stay here 1 year. So we’d actually have to register it every year at the price of around $1500. Ouch!

b) Well if we can’t bring in a vehicle, why not get a friend to help look for a used vehicle? Great question. We talked to many friends about buying a car here. They all gave us many warnings. Car prices are high because there are so few used ones. Ukraine became independant only 20 years ago and since about 1995 there has been an increasing middle class population, many buying vehicles for the first time. There isn’t enough supply and they go light hotcakes at dealerships. Of course, we’ve driven on the roads here and the potholes are big (Winnipeg roads don’t even compare). Lastly, people warned us about the drivers. You know how people drive when they’re in a rental car? Well imagine the whole city was driving rentals… kind of gives you the picture. So when you buy used here, you really don’t know what you’re getting! As well, in the first few years, while we are still learning Russian, we won’t have to worry about learning auto mechanics terms like carbeurator and brake fluid while we sit on the side of the road waiting for a tow truck.

c) So after listening to lots of people who live here, both foreigners and locals, we felt it was worth a look at a new car dealer. After looking at over 5 different car types, we came to one conclusion – we can only really afford a compact car. So we checked out 2 Renaults (the Logan and the Symbol), the Skoda Fabia, the Hyundai Getz and its cousin the I20, as well as a VW golf and our final pick, the Nissan Note. The cheapest car came in at a little over 13,000. All the other cars, including the our Nissan Note came in around 15,000 (except the VW).

All told, a lot went into this decision. We moved into a cheaper apartment, saving about $300/month so that we could afford a car on the same budget. The apartment is a little farther from work but in the long term having a car will create opportunities otherwise unavailable to us.

Hopefully, seeing some of the information that went into this decision has helped you to see why we chose a new car. If you have some questions, we’d love to hear from you. Just send us a quick email and we’ll get back to you.

Potty Party

We don’t usually blog about our kids except on their own personal pages, but today I feel that Cassie deserves the spotlight (or maybe Mommy does). Today we started with Potty training. You may be thinking, ‘What?! She is almost 3 (in May) and she isn’t potty trained yet?’ It is true! Not because she hasn’t wanted to but we have been in the midst of so much change over the past year that it just hasn’t been the right time. Now that we are in our own place with no plans of moving we figured it was the right time. Cassie is currently having her afternoon nap and this morning we have had 2 accidents and three successful trips to the Potty. We made a big deal of it, with balloons, candy, a doll who is also going to the potty etc. Of course today Jay also decided to get a little sick, clingy and get into the paints (see pictures) so it made it a little more challenging, but we won’t give up! Thank you for celebrating with all of us!