Locked In

Well, we’ve had a locked-out experience with Cassie before, when she dropped the keys down the elevator shaft. But we had a locked-in situation this week. It always happens so innocently though. She just wanted to change clothes without having anyone watch her, of course its ok for her to go in the bathroom. I really didn’t know that she knew how to close the little latch. (You know the ones, they are always on bathroom stalls in public washrooms, just a little metal stick that you push into the doorframe.)

So when she tried to open the door and it didn’t budge, I had no idea how it got locked. It didn’t take long for the fear to rise up within her… So after a few failed attempts we told her it would be ok. Of course, we were hoping “ok” didn’t mean breaking down the door. Our little bathroom has no windows, just brick walls, we can’t screw or detach the hinges in any way. So if she can’t open the lock, the door is coming down!

It’s one of those times as a parent, I just don’t know what to do. I know she can unlock it, after all, she did lock it herself. But she is in too much of a mess at the moment. Better yet, I realize there has got to be a learning opportunity for us here, turns out, it was a really good reminder me. After a few minutes, I said, “Cassie, we should pray.” So we prayed to Jesus, asking him for wisdom, strength and confidence and reminding both him and us that we trust him. A moment later, Ang suggests getting the stool by the tub, which gives Cassie the height and leverage needed to open the lock. And you know what, this time we remembered to immediately thank Jesus for answering our prayer.

Sick

One of the hardest things as a parent is to see your kids sick. We landed in Ukraine from Sweden on Friday and we left Saturday morning for Germany by car. On day two of the road trip Jay started throwing up. Just when we thought he was over it, Cassie got it. Yuck! Thankfully Cassie is at the age when she can understand what is happening and can understand why she is eating crackers and not sweets- but she sure does like sweets! :)

Shining

There is no other word to describe the look in Cassie’s face when she is filled with joy and excitement about something. She shines. Her eyes sparkle, her smile lights up the room. She is a wonderful daughter that we love so much! Thanks Cassie for shining your love and light into our lives!

Playing Games

‘Your turn Daddy!’ Cassie has discovered the fun of games in all their glory! Learning about cleaning up, losing, and taking turns are all important in the realm of game playing! It is a fun stage…but after many games in a row we are getting excited for when Jay grows up and can play with her :)

Where Do Babies Come Out?

Here is a conversation that Ben and Cassie had today in the car on our road trip:

“Daddy, do you know how babies come out?”

“Uh… Cassie, it is complicated.”

“No it isn’t Daddy, they come out your bum.”

Laughter erupts from all of us, and the awkward moment passes… :) Count on kids to give you good road trip material!

All by myself

Of course kids grow up. We know that.
Today Ben wanted to help Cassie do up her snowpants (there isn’t any snow here yet, but she is so excited for it that she wears them around the house), but of course ‘It’s okay Daddy, I can do it.’ Other feats this past month included getting herself up on the toilet (now she doesn’t need us for that at all), climbing UP a slide, jumping off the last few steps (of course with mom’s reminder, ‘careful!’) and getting very far in her reading skills! Pretending to play Doctor and Hide and Seek are her favorite games right now. She is also getting better at colouring and focusing on one game for a longer period of time. What a big girl she is getting to be!

Reading

We’ve been working through a textbook – how to read in 100 lessons. Of course, making it through a whole lesson doesn’t always work, and sometimes Cas doesn’t totally ‘get it’, but it’s coming along and she can read some small words like cat, rat, and rug. It will be great when she can read to Jay, and to our new baby that comes along this May!!

To Be The Bride

The other day Cassie and I were “pretending” in the car. She was the mom with 4 kids. “Okay Cassie, how many are girls?” “Well, 1 is a girl, mom”. “Then how many boys would you have?” “3!” Math already?! She must take after her Daddy.

Speaking of Daddies, last week we travelled to Lviv, Ukraine and we saw at least 10-15 brides taking pictures all over this small picturesque city. Cassie was of course enthralled with them all day! She kept saying that one day she would marry her Daddy. Awww.. It was so cute!

 

Happy Birthday Cassie!

Look at me me me, I’m three three three, I’m as happy as can be be be, Can you tell? Can you see? I’m a very very happy me! I can build my blocks, put on my socks, I can even draw a circle.

We love you little girl – you’re a wonderful treasure in our life!

You have a wonderful attitude, bring such joy to us with your singing and dancing. You blow our socks off with how intelligent you are, you’re always learning new things, drawing new conclusions, using big new words and really surprising us at every turn! You’re the most wonderful gift from God we have ever received! You are finally three three three! :)

PS. You can watch a clip of Cassie performing the above song with her mom here or a different one here.

At the Park

Cassie sure is growing up really fast! At the park she is no longer satisfied without a challenge. “Let’s do the big slide”, “I want to climb on the rainbow” (monkey bars in a semi-circle shape), “look Mom, I’m pumping” as she swings (although she still needs a lot of pushing). We’re practicing on the tricycle. Inside the house, she is painting pictures and using different colors on different objects, reading books and of course, helping her brother overcome any obstacle he encounters.

Being Mom

Cassie often plays at being ‘mom’. She will help Angela cook, sweep, clean the house, take care of Jay, you name it. So Angela had a great idea yesterday, let’s make her a child-size stove โ€ฆ out of some cardboard boxes we had lying around. Last night she made me some rice with salt, pepper and dill on it and it sure was great!