We live a gong-show life!

Yes. Yes we do!

It’s not a totally abnormal event for the power to be off at our house, even up to a few hours. It happens more now that it is really hot and everybody’s air con is on high. Anyway, maybe you’re not like us but before leaving for the night to go to a community evening at our ywam property we might forget to switch off a light or two when the power is off and we can’t tell.

Yes, so tonight we forgot a few lights. Worse, we forgot the shower. Uh huh. The pump for the well is connected to our power supply so when there is no electricity, there is no water. oops! Forgot to turn off the water when the power went out so we walked into the house with the shower on full blast! Imagine how many places a bathtub shower can spray water? Especially when the curtain is open!

Did I forget to mention that we’ve had 3 separate bird-in-our-house incidents in the last 2 weeks. One came in through the corner of the window screen. One came down the chimney like Santa. We still can’t figure where the last one got in.

But maybe he talked to the 5 inch grasshopper we found tonight. Grasshopper … locust … green  monster from another world. Imagine sitting down to feed Kai in the bedroom and being attacked by a 5 inch green monster formerly known as pretty little grasshopper.

We’re pretty sure bird #3 and grasshopper are in cahoots. But don’t worry. I’ve got a system down for getting the birds out. It’s a bad sign when you’ve got a whole system for a problem that should never happen. What’s the system?

Well, I wasn’t going to tell you, but since you asked!

#1 – get the family out – especially Kai because he’s small enough and feeble enough to be bird food

#2 – close doors to bedrooms so bird doesn’t get trapped in there

#3 – open upstairs window (this will become exit for crazy bird)

#4 – get big blue blanket – don’t try to catch bird without it (cornered bird is scared bird)

#5 – herd bird towards upstairs den (where exit window is)

#6 – once bird is in den wave blanket until bird finally finds the exit

#7 – open bedroomdoors, wave to family

#8 – change underwear so people don’t smell your fear

(of course,  #7 and #8 are interchangeable)

Come join us one day and find out just how interesting life can be for us! Free slugs in your bed berries if you come at the right time of year!

(** Yes, the picture is the real deal. The cellphone on top of the tupperware is a normal cheap nokia.)

Welcome Basket- Soup Anyone?

Our friends are out of town for a little while so we are planning to leave a small welcome home basket in their apartment for when they return. We were thinking some fruit, chocolate, maybe a few canned drinks.

Today as we told our Ukrainian friend about our plans to put a little welcome basket in their place she asked us, ‘Will it be Borscht?’ (the local Ukrainian soup). We laughed at how two countries customs can be so different. Yum! Borscht would be a great welcome home gift!

Happy Fathers Day

Hey Dad!

I just wanted to write you a little note and say I love you and I’m so thankful for you!
Since you’ve been gone I’ve been trying to include Jay and Cas in more things I do, not just getting the jobs done but trying to let them be a part of it. I’m still not very good at it, but every day I do a little bit better. :) Thanks for helping me see that developing them and our relationship is more important than just finishing a task.
You’re a great dad!

Hope you’re not too crazy busy and that you’re sort of enjoying being back home – try not to over do it.
Love you!
Benjo

In Praise of Inefficiency

by Timothy Paul Jones

I saw something beautiful the other day while walking down Breckenridge Lane. In a front yard not far from my home, a young mother was removing a layer of leftover leaves from the fall in preparation for planting spring flowers—an ordinary activity in the middle of an ordinary day.

What was extraordinary about this scene was what I saw beside this young woman.

A tow-haired boy, perhaps three or four years old, was attempting to assist her. His rake was man-sized, his movements were far from efficient, and he was leaving more leaves than he moved. Yet, as I passed this mother and child, I heard no criticisms. Instead, I heard a constant stream of encouragement: “Daddy will be so proud of your hard work! Can you try to get those leaves over there? You know, honey, it might work better if you turned the rake over.”

If this woman’s sole goal for the afternoon was leaf removal, her best bet would have been to plop her preschooler in front of a television to watch professionally-produced children’s programs that pretend to equip children with skills for life while leaching away their capacity for meaningful relationships. If this mother had chosen this option, she could have pursued the goal of planting spring flowers far more efficiently.

But this woman had a goal that was far bigger than any flower-bed.

This woman understood that her deeper purpose on this day was not to improve a yard but to shape a soul. She was teaching her child the value of work and partnership and family structures, in addition to the quite crucial skill of knowing which side of a rake is supposed to face the ground. She was an amateur, in the best and oldest sense of the word “amateur”: a person who engages in a particular activity because of love. She most likely possessed no transcripted credential in the fields of motherhood or leaf removal. But that was all for the best anyway because no credential could develop in a child what this mother was engraving in her son’s soul that afternoon.


:: Equipping My Brothers and Sisters, the Neglected Role of Church Leaders ::

So what does all of this have to do with church leadership?

Simply this: If you’re a church leader trying to train parents to embrace their role as disciple-makers in their children’s lives, you are likely to wonder at some point, “Wouldn’t it be more efficient for hired professionals to disciple children through church programs instead of expecting parents to participate in this process? No matter how many times I encourage and equip the moms and dads, some of them don’t even seem to be trying! Even the ones that try don’t always do a good job. Why constantly acknowledge the parents as primary disciple-makers when so many of them do it so poorly? This is so inefficient!”

If that’s the way you feel, you’re partly correct! If your goal is organizational efficiency, equipping parents to disciple their children may be an inefficient use of your time, and turning over children’s spiritual lives to professionals at church might make perfect sense.

But efficiency is not the goal of gospel-motivated ministry.

The crucified and risen Lord Jesus determines the shape and establishes the goal for his church, and it has been his Father’s good pleasure to constitute his church as a conglomeration of amateurs, not as a corporation managed by professionals (1 Cor 12:4–31). His Spirit does not give gifts for the purpose of making the church efficient. The Holy Spirit arranges gifts in the body according to his will in order to make his people holy (1 Cor 12:11).

The role of God-called leaders is to encourage and to equip their brothers and sisters in their communities of faith to serve as ministers and missionaries first within their own households, and then far beyond their households (Acts 2:39; Eph 4:11–13). These processes are not likely to be quick or efficient. Sometimes, it will feel as if professionalized programs would be an easier solution, but no church program can develop in a child what parents are able to engrave in their children’s souls day-by-day. And so, despite the apparent inefficiency of expecting parents to disciple their own children, family-equipping ministers persist in their passion for training fathers and mothers as the primary disciple-makers in their children’s lives.


:: Divinely-Designated Amateur Disciple-Makers, the Neglected Role of Christian Parents ::

In the early twentieth century, a journalist named G.K. Chesterton offered these comments about the British and American jury system:

The trend of our epoch up to this time has been consistently towards specialism and professionalism. We tend to have trained soldiers because they fight better, trained singers because they sing better, trained dancers because they dance better, specially
instructed laughers because they laugh better, and so on and so on. … [Yet] our civilization has decided, and very justly decided, that determining the guilt or innocence of men is a thing too important to be trusted to trained men. When it wishes for light upon that awful matter, it asks men who know no more law than I know, but who can feel the things that I felt in the jury box. When it wants a library catalogued, or the solar system discovered, or any trifle of that kind, it uses up specialists. But when it wishes anything done which is really serious, it collects twelve of the ordinary men standing round. The same thing was done, if I remember right, by the Founder of Christianity.

A similar statement might be made regarding the training of children to respond to the gospel day-by-day. Though professionals may certainly partner with parents in this task, such a serious undertaking is too significant to be relinquished to professionals, too profound to be befuddled by a focus on efficiency. The formation of a child’s faith is not a skill for specialists. It is a habit to be developed in the lives of divinely-designated amateurs, and these amateurs are known as “Dad” and “Mom.”

In my childhood, one of the most significant habits that shaped my soul was a single, simple pattern that required no special skills, no particular curriculum. Each night, my mother came into my room, sat on the side of my bed, and listened to me pray.

What was significant about this wasn’t so much the praying, which was pretty much the same every night. It was the conversations about life that arose in the context of prayer—coupled with the fact that I had to face my mother every evening, regardless of what I might have done during the day.

At some point in early adolescence, I informed my mother that, from that point forward, I could handle praying on my own. Deep inside, I regretted my request even then, and I regret it even more now. In some inexplicable way, knowing that I would have to pray with my mother each night placed a limit on what I was willing to say and to do during the day.

Today, this pattern from my childhood marks the end of each day in the lives of each of my own children. A few months ago, when my teenager suggested that she might not need me to pray with her each night, my response ran something like this: “You know, I think you are totally able to pray on your own, and I want you to pray on your own as well. But, even though you don’t need my help to pray, I need the reminder every night that God gave you to me and that I’m responsible to guide you toward him. So, every night, I’ll still be here to pray with you, no matter what.”

Since that moment, my daughter and I have had dozens of important night-time conversations that I might otherwise have missed.

There is no curriculum for this habit. Life itself is the curriculum. There is no special training, only the gift of time given each night. Sometimes it works well, other times it doesn’t. It’s an inefficient use of time by any earthly standard—but it is a right and good response to God’s work of grace in our lives.

 

Just Willing – Gladys Aylward

“I wasn’t God’s first choice for what I’ve done for China. I don’t know who it was. It must have been a man—a well–educated man. I don’t know what happened. Perhaps he died. Perhaps he wasn’t willing. And God looked down… and saw Gladys Aylward. And God said, ‘Well, she’s willing.’” – Gladys Aylward

Don’t Waste Your Life

“And people who do not know the Lord ask why in the world we waste our lives as missionaries. They forget that they too are expending their lives…and when the bubble has burst they will have nothing of eternal significance to show for the years they have wasted.” – Nate Saint

22 Fun Facts About Ukraine

2012-Jun-08 at 00:56 | Svitlana Tuchynska
** Taken from the Kyiv Post 

Take a quick lesson on Euro 2012 co-host Ukraine.

It is Ukraine, not “the Ukraine.”

More than half (53 percent) of the population speaks Ukrainian and 44 percent Russian.

The capital, Kyiv, is mostly a Russian-speaking city.

While the population of Ukraine is 45.6 million, at least 10 million Ukrainians live abroad. Most live in Russia (around four million), Kazakhstan, the U.S., Canada, Moldova, Poland, Argentina and Brazil.

The medieval state ofKyivan Rus, with its capital in Kyiv, was founded by the Vikings in 9th century, according to the most popular theory.

Ukraine claims to be home to the geographical center of Europe, which is near the western town of Rakhiv. Other places in Europe claim to have the center, and the definition depends on the methodology used.

During the 10th and 11thcenturies, Kyivan Rus became the largest and most powerful state in Europe, especially during the reign of Yaroslav the Wise who was married to Ingegerd Olofsdotter of Sweden, the daughter ofSwedish King OlofSkotkonung. Their daughters became queens of Norway, France and Hungary.

Parts of Ukraine belonged to different empires for centuries: the Ottoman empire, Poland-Lithuania, Austrian-Hungarian and Russian empire. Ukraine as it is now was formed only in 1954 when the Crimean peninsula became part of the Ukrainian Soviet Socialist Republic.

The dominant religion in the nation is Orthodoxy, followed by Catholicism, Protestantism, Judaism and Islam.

Kyiv Cake, first made in 1956, became the symbol of the city across the Soviet Union and remains popular. The cake consists of layers of meringue, hazelnuts, chocolate glaze and butter cream.

The world’s heaviest aircraft, theAntonov An-225Mriyawas designed in Ukraine in 1988 and is still manufactured in Kyiv. The aircraft holds the world record for carrying the heaviest ever load.

The Carol of the Bells, the most popular Christmas carol, was originally composed by the Ukrainian composer Mykola Leontovych.

The subway station Arsenalna in the Kyiv city center is the deepest subway station in the world at 105 meters below ground. According to popular belief, Arsenalna was home to secret bunkers for the political elite of Soviet Union.

The Ukrainian currency, hryvnia, derives from the hrivna – the massive necklace of gold or silver that ancient kings once wore.

With an area of 603,628square kilometers, Ukraine is the second largest contiguous country on the European continent.

Nearly all (99.4 percent) of Ukrainians over 16 years old know how to write and 70 percent of the population has a higher education. However, the quality of education is questionable due to widespread corruption.

Local tradition is to bring an odd number of flowers for a celebration and an even number for funerals.

Bread is consumed with every meal in most Ukrainian families. Some even eat bread with dessert and fruit.
Ukrainians are the fifth-heaviest drinking nation in the world after Moldova, the Czech Republic, Hungary and Russia, according to the World Health Organization.

Some 77 percent of Ukrainians have never been abroad, while 36 percent of Ukrainians have never been outside their region, according to a Research & Branding Group survey.

Many Ukrainians believe that vodka helps treat flu, cold and stomach conditions. A folk recipe is vodka mixed with black pepper and honey or vodka mixed with hot milk and honey.

There are at least 25,000 fortune tellers, magicians and astrologists of all kinds in the country where many people are superstitious.

Ukrainian President Viktor Yanukovych served two terms in jail. The first time came when he was 17, when he spent three years in prison for robbery. When he was 20 he was convicted again and sentenced to two years in prison for assault. Both convictions were expunged from his record in 1978.

Kyiv Post staff writer Svitlana Tuchynska can be reached at tuchynska@kyivpost.com

Read more: http://www.kyivpost.com/news/euro2012/fan_guide/detail/129015/

No Spiritual Experts

I’m posting this article from Christianity Today because of its relevance to my post on Father’s Day. There is a really great quote below:

Frederick von Hugel said the institution of the church is like the bark on the tree. There’s no life in the bark. It’s dead wood. But it protects the life of the tree within. And the tree grows and grows and grows and grows. If you take the bark off, it’s prone to disease, dehydration, death.

So, yes, the church is dead but it protects something alive. And when you try to have a church without bark, it doesn’t last long. It disappears, gets sick, and it’s prone to all kinds of disease, heresy, and narcissism.

I love it. Maybe its because I grew up going to church and the people within the institution have made a big impact on my life. Maybe I’ve heard enough messages about how God chose the church. Or maybe its because I backlash against new ideas sometimes. Anyway, sometimes its nice to remind myself that the institution of the church is important, even though “it” is also responsible for many terrible things, like crusades, abuse of power, manipulation, greedy people bent on selfish gain. But “it” is also responsible for keeping the Bible around and which is almost perfectly preserved (see just one comparison here), teaching truth generation after generation, changing the world for good, creating schools, pushing for human rights, developing medicine and the list goes on. Sometimes its important to remember that even dead things like bark, or the institution of the church, can be used to save life, like a tree or a person.

 

Spirituality for All the Wrong Reasons

Eugene Peterson talks about lies and illusions that destroy the church.
Interview by Mark Galli
[ posted 3/4/2005 12:00AM ]

Eugene Peterson had a publishing life before The Message. And one could argue that it was his previous publications that led, at least in part, to the renewal of Christian spirituality among pastors and laypeople today. In such books as Five Smooth Stones for Pastoral Work, Run with the Horses, A Long Obedience in the Same Direction: Discipleship in an Instant Society, and The Contemplative Pastor: Returning to the Art of Spiritual Direction, Peterson exposed the shallowness of American Christianity and offered a bracing and invigorating alternative.

It is momentous, then, that Peterson has returned to writing about the Christian life with Christ Plays in Ten Thousand Places: A Conversation in Spiritual Theology (Eerdmans, 2005). It is the first of a projected five-volume series in which Peterson will systematically pull together themes he has been talking about for three decades—spiritual formation, Scripture, leadership, the church, pastoring, spiritual direction.

The first volume is a tour de force in spiritual theology, combining incisive cultural analysis and biblical exposition with a sweeping and engaging vision of the Christian life.

All of his writing has emerged out of his work as a pastor, mostly at Christ Our King Presbyterian Church in Bel Air, Maryland, a Baltimore suburb. He was the founding pastor of the church, which grew to some 500 members before he left after 29 years. He went from there to Pittsburgh Theological Seminary and then to Regent College in Vancouver, British Columbia. He is now “retired,” living in his home state of Montana, but he remains at heart a pastor who cares deeply about the Christian life as it is lived in the local church.

As Peterson was finishing the manuscript of Christ Plays in Ten Thousand Places, CT managing editor Mark Galli spoke with him about themes that emerged from the book and his life.

What is the most misunderstood aspect of spirituality?

That it’s a kind of specialized form of being a Christian, that you have to have some kind of in. It’s elitist. Many people are attracted to it for the wrong reasons. Others are put off by it: I’m not spiritual. I like to go to football games or parties or pursue my career. In fact, I try to avoid the word.

Many people assume that spirituality is about becoming emotionally intimate with God.

That’s a naïve view of spirituality. What we’re talking about is the Christian life. It’s following Jesus. Spirituality is no different from what we’ve been doing for two thousand years just by going to church and receiving the sacraments, being baptized, learning to pray, and reading Scriptures rightly. It’s just ordinary stuff.

This promise of intimacy is both right and wrong. There is an intimacy with God, but it’s like any other intimacy; it’s part of the fabric of your life. In marriage you don’t feel intimate most of the time. Nor with a friend. Intimacy isn’t primarily a mystical emotion. It’s a way of life, a life of openness, honesty, a certain transparency.

Doesn’t the mystical tradition suggest otherwise?

One of my favorite stories is of Teresa of Avila. She’s sitting in the kitchen with a roasted chicken. And she’s got it with both hands, and she’s gnawing on it, just devouring this chicken. One of the nuns comes in shocked that she’s doing this, behaving this way. She said, “When I eat chicken, I eat chicken; when I pray, I pray.”

If you read the saints, they’re pretty ordinary people. There are moments of rapture and ecstasy, but once every 10 years. And even then it’s a surprise to them. They didn’t do anything. We’ve got to disabuse people of these illusions of what the Christian life is. It’s a wonderful life, but it’s not wonderful in the way a lot of people want it to be.

Yet evangelicals rightly tell people they can have a “personal relationship with God.” That suggests a certain type of spiritual intimacy.

All these words get so screwed up in our society. If intimacy means being open and honest and authentic, so I don’t have veils, or I don’t have to be defensive or in denial of who I am, that’s wonderful. But in our culture, intimacy usually has sexual connotations, with some kind of completion. So I want intimacy because I want more out of life. Very seldom does it have the sense of sacrifice or giving or being vulnerable. Those are two different ways of being intimate. And in our American vocabulary intimacy usually has to do with getting something from the other. That just screws the whole thing up.

It’s very dangerous to use the language of the culture to interpret the gospel. Our vocabulary has to be chastened and tested by revelation, by the Scriptures. We’ve got a pretty good vocabulary and syntax, and we’d better start paying attention to it because the way we grab words here and there to appeal to unbelievers is not very good.

This corruption of the word spirituality even in Christian circles—does it have something to do with the New Age movement?

The New Age stuff is old age. It’s been around for a long time. It’s a cheap shortcut to—I guess we have to use the word—spirituality. It avoids the ordinary, the everyday, the physical, the material. It’s a form of Gnosticism, and it has a terrific appeal because it’s a spirituality that doesn’t have anything to do with doing the dishes or changing diapers or going to work. There’s not much integration with work, people, sin, trouble, inconvenience.

I’ve been a pastor most of my life, for some 45 years. I love doing this. But to tell you the truth, the people who give me the most distress are those who come asking, “Pastor, how can I be spiritual?” Forget about being spiritual. How about loving your husband? Now that’s a good place to start. But that’s not what they’re interested in. How about learning to love your kids, accept them the way they are?

My name shouldn’t even be connected with spirituality.

But it very much is.

I know. Then a few years ago I got this embarrassing position of being a professor of “spiritual theology” at Regent. Now what do you do?

You make spirituality sound so mundane.

I don’t want to suggest that those of us who are following Jesus don’t have any fun, that there’s no joy, no exuberance, no ecstasy. They’re just not what the consumer thinks they are. When we advertise the gospel in terms of the world’s values, we lie to people. We lie to them, because this is a new life. It involves following Jesus. It involves the Cross. It involves death, an acceptable sacrifice. We give up our lives.

The Gospel of Mark is so graphic this way. The first half of the Gospel is Jesus showing people how to live. He’s healing everybody. Then right in the middle, he shifts. He starts showing people how to die: “Now that you’ve got a life, I’m going to show you how to give it up.” That’s the whole spiritual life. It’s learning how to die. And as you learn how to die, you start losing all your illusions, and you start being capable now of true intimacy and love.

It involves a kind of learned passivity, so that our primary mode of relationship is receiving, submitting, instead of giving and getting and doing. We don’t do that very well. We’re trained to be assertive, to get, to apply, or to consume and to perform.

Repentance, dying to self, submission—these are not very attractive hooks to draw people into the faith.

I think the minute you put the issue that way you’re in trouble. Because then we join the consumer world, and everything then becomes product designed to give you something. We don’t need something more. We don’t need something better. We’re after life. We’re learning how to live.

I think people are fed up with consumer approaches, even though they’re addicted to them. But if we cast the evangel in terms of benefits, we’re setting people up for disappointment. We’re telling them lies.

This is not the way our Scriptures are written. This is not the way Jesus came among us. It’s not the way Paul preached. Where do we get all this stuff? We have a textbook. We have these Scriptures and most of the time they’re saying, “You’re going the wrong way. Turn around. The culture is poisoning.”

Do we realize how almost exactly the Baal culture of Canaan is reproduced in American church culture? Baal religion is about what makes you feel good. Baal worship is a total immersion in what I can get out of it. And of course, it was incredibly successful. The Baal priests could gather crowds that outnumbered followers of Yahweh 20 to 1. There was sex, there was excitement, there was music, there was ecstasy, there was dance. “We got girls over here, friends. We got statues, girls, and festivals.” This was great stuff. And what did the Hebrews have to offer in response? The Word. What’s the Word? Well, Hebrews had festivals, at least!

Still, the one big hook or benefit to Christian faith is salvation, no? “Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved.” Is this not something we can use to legitimately attract listeners?

It’s the biggest word we have—salvation, being saved. We are saved from a way of life in which there was no resurrection. And we’re being saved from ourselves. One way to define spiritual life is getting so tired and fed up with yourself you go on to something better, which is following Jesus.

But the minute we start advertising the faith in terms of benefits, we’re just exacerbating the self problem. “With Christ, you’re better, stronger, more likeable, you enjoy some ecstasy.” But it’s just more self. Instead, we want to get people bored with themselves so they can start looking at Jesus.

We’ve all met a certain type of spiritual person. She’s a wonderful person. She loves the Lord. She prays and reads the Bible all the time. But all she thinks about is herself. She’s not a selfish person. But she’s always at the center of everything she’s doing. “How can I witness better? How can I do this better? How can I take care of this person’s problem better?” It’s me, me, me disguised in a way that is difficult to see because her spiritual talk disarms us.

So how should we visualize the Christian life?

In church last Sunday, there was a couple in front of us with two bratty kids. Two pews behind us there was another couple with their two bratty kids making a lot of noise. This is mostly an older congregation. So these people are set in their ways. Their kids have been gone a long time. And so it wasn’t a very nice service; it was just not very good worship. But afterwards I saw half a dozen of these elderly people come up and put their arms around the mother, touch the kids, sympathize with her. They could have been irritated.

Now why do people go to a church like that when they can go to a church that has a nursery, is air conditioned, and all the rest? Well, because they’re Lutherans. They don’t mind being miserable! Norwegian Lutherans!

And this same church recently welcomed a young woman with a baby and a three-year-old boy. The children were baptized a few weeks ago. But there was no man with her. She’s never married; each of the kids has a different father. She shows up at church and wants her children baptized. She’s a Christian and wants to follow in the Christian way. So a couple from the church acted as godparents. Now there are three or four couples in the church who every Sunday try to get together with her.

Now, where is the “joy” in that church? These are dour Norwegians! But there’s a lot of joy. There’s an abundant life going, but it’s not abundant in the way a non-Christian would think. I think there’s a lot more going on in churches like this; they’re just totally anticultural. They’re full of joy and faithfulness and obedience and care. But you sure wouldn’t know it by reading the literature of church growth, would you?

But many Christians would look at this church and say it’s dead, merely an institutional expression of the faith.

What other church is there besides institutional? There’s nobody who doesn’t have problems with the church, because there’s sin in the church. But there’s no other place to be a Christian except the church. There’s sin in the local bank. There’s sin in the grocery stores. I really don’t understand this naïve criticism of the institution. I really don’t get it.

Frederick von Hugel said the institution of the church is like the bark on the tree. There’s no life in the bark. It’s dead wood. But it protects the life of the tree within. And the tree grows and grows and grows and grows. If you take the bark off, it’s prone to disease, dehydration, death.

So, yes, the church is dead but it protects something alive. And when you try to have a church without bark, it doesn’t last long. It disappears, gets sick, and it’s prone to all kinds of disease, heresy, and narcissism.

In my writing, I hope to recover a sense of the reality of congregation—what it is. It’s a gift of the Holy Spirit. Why are we always idealizing what the Holy Spirit doesn’t idealize? There’s no idealization of the church in the Bible—none. We’ve got two thousand years of history now. Why are we so dumb?

Since the Reformation, though, we’ve championed the idea that the church can be reformed.

Hasn’t happened. I’m for always reforming, but to think that we can get a church that’s reformed is just silliness.

I think the besetting sin of pastors, maybe especially evangelical pastors, is impatience. We have a goal. We have a mission. We’re going to save the world. We’re going to evangelize everybody, and we’re going to do all this good stuff and fill our churches. This is wonderful. All the goals are right. But this is slow, slow work, this soul work, this bringing people into a life of obedience and love and joy before God.

And we get impatient and start taking shortcuts and use any means available. We talk about benefits. We manipulate people. We bully them. We use language that is just incredibly impersonal—bullying language, manipulative language.

One doesn’t normally think of churches as bullying.

Whenever guilt is used as a tool to get people to do anything—good, bad, indifferent—it’s bullying. And then there’s manipulative language—to talk people into programs, to get them involved, usually by promising them something.

I have a friend who is an expert at this sort of thing. He’s always saying, “You’ve got to identify people’s felt needs. Then you construct a program to meet the felt needs.” It’s pretty easy to manipulate people. We’re so used to being manipulated by the image industry, the publicity industry, and the politicians that we hardly know we’re being manipulated.

This impatience to leave the methods of Jesus in order to get the work of Jesus done is what destroys spirituality, because we’re using a non-biblical, non-Jesus way to do what Jesus did. That’s why spirituality is in such a mess as it is today.

But many pastors see people suffering in bad marriages, with drug addiction, with greed. And so they rightly want to help them now, by whatever method will work.

Yes, except something backfires on you when you’re impatient. How do we meet the need? Do we do it in Jesus’ way or do we do it the Wal-Mart way?

Spirituality is not about ends or benefits or things; it’s about means. It’s about how you do this. How do you live in reality?

So, how do you help all these people? The needs are huge. Well, you do it the way Jesus did it. You do it one at a time. You can’t do gospel work, kingdom work in an impersonal way.

We live in the Trinity. Everything we do has to be in the context of the Trinity, which means personally, relationally. The minute you start doing things impersonally, functionally, mass oriented, you deny the gospel. Yet that’s all we do.

Jesus is the Truth and the Life, but first he’s the Way. We can’t do Jesus’ work in the Devil’s way.

I get exercised about this because many pastors are getting castrated by these methodologies, which are impersonal. There’s no relationship to them. And so they become performance oriented and successful. It’s pretty easy in our culture, at least if you’re tall and have a big smile. And they lose their soul. There’s nothing to them after 20 years. Or they crash. They try all this stuff and it doesn’t work, and they quit, or quit and start doing something else. Probably 90 percent of the affairs that pastors have are not due to lust, but boredom with not having this romantic kind of life they thought they’d get.

What if we were to frame this not in terms of needs but relevance? Many Christians hope to speak to generation X or Y or postmoderns, or some subgroup, like cowboys or bikers—people for whom the typical church seems irrelevant.

When you start tailoring the gospel to the culture, whether it’s a youth culture, a generation culture or any other kind of culture, you have taken the guts out of the gospel. The gospel of Jesus Christ is not the kingdom of this world. It’s a different kingdom.

My son Eric organized a new church six years ago. The Presbyterians have kind of a boot camp for new church pastors where you learn what you’re supposed to do. So Eric went. One of the teachers there said he shouldn’t put on a robe and a stole: “You get out there and you meet this generation where they are.”

So Eric, being a good student and wanting to please his peers, didn’t wear a robe. His church started meeting in a high-school auditorium. He started out by wearing a business suit every Sunday. But when the first Sunday of Advent rolled around, and they were going to have Communion, he told me, “Dad, I just couldn’t do it. So I put my robe on.”

Their neighbors, Joel and his wife, attended his church. Joel was the stereotype of the person the new church development was designed for—suburban, middle management, never been to church, totally secular. Eric figured he was coming because they were neighbors, or because he liked him. After that Advent service, he asked Joel what he thought of his wearing a robe.

He said, “It made an impression. My wife and I talked about it. I think what we’re really looking for is sacred space. We both think we found it.”

I think relevance is a crock. I don’t think people care a whole lot about what kind of music you have or how you shape the service. They want a place where God is taken seriously, where they’re taken seriously, where there is no manipulation of their emotions or their consumer needs.

Why did we get captured by this advertising, publicity mindset? I think it’s destroying our church.

But someone else might walk into Eric’s church, see him with his robe, and walk out, thinking the whole place was too religious, too churchy.

So why are they going if it’s not going to be religious? What do they go to church for?

Of course, there’s another aspect to this. If you’re going to a church where everybody’s playing a religious role, that’s going to be off putting. But that performance mentality, role mentality can be seen in the cowboy church or whatever—everybody is performing a role there, too.

But we’re involved with something that has a huge mystery to it. Are we going to wipe out all the mystery so we can be in control of it? Isn’t reverence at the very heart of the worship of God?

And if we present a rendition of the faith in which all the mystery is removed, and there’s no reverence, how are people ever going to know there’s something more than just their own emotions, their own needs? There’s something a lot bigger than my needs that’s going on. How do I ever get to that if the church service and worship program is all centered on my needs?

Some people would argue that it’s important to have a worship service in which people feel comfortable so they can hear the gospel.

I think they’re wrong. Take the story I told you about this family in front of us on Sunday. Nobody was comfortable. The whole church was miserable.

And yet, they might have experienced more gospel in going up and putting their arms around that poor mother, who was embarrassed to death.

How do we know when they have moved from merely adapting ministry to the culture to sacrificing the gospel?

One test I think is this: Am I working out of the Jesus story, the Jesus methods, the Jesus way? Am I sacrificing relationship, personal attention, personal relationship for a shortcut, a program so I can get stuff done? You can’t do Jesus’ work in a non-Jesus way and get by with it—although you can be very “successful.”

One thing that I think is characteristic of me is I stay local. I’m rooted in a pastoral life, which is an ordinary life. So while all this glitter and image of spirituality is going around, I feel quite indifferent to it, to tell you the truth. And I’m somewhat suspicious of it because it seems to be uprooted, not grounded in local conditions, which are the only conditions in which you can live a Christian life.

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Special Feature: Ukraine

During the month of June we will doing special feature posts on Ukraine. It won’t be quite like discovery channel, we just don’t have the time or budget for that. The purpose of these posts is to give you a basic introduction to the world of an eastern European Ukrainian.

As you may have noticed, we’ve already started running with some articles on basic info and the 2012 European Football Cup (aka EuroCup). New articles will include topics like major holidays, significant events (births, weddings, funerals), the dacha and many more.

You can find these special articles by clicking on the Ukrainian flag at the bottom of the front page, or click here to go there now.

2 Weeks

** This is a guest post by Mike Hopcraft.

Wow!  I can’t believe that 2 weeks have gone by.  Lisa and I have thoroughly enjoyed Ben and Ang’s wonderful hospitality.  I am so glad that Lisa has been here before and that Ben was such a willing guide – I would have been lost many times over.  Not only with the language but with the driving!  Ben could be a rally race car champion!

Helping at the YWAM work day was very satisfiying.  Seeing two of the interior walls being built for the new kitchen and the volleyball court levelled as well as LOTS of other clean up was great!  It was neat to see how the whole YWAM team works hard, laughs a lot and encourages each other – what a great team.

We were able to see lots of the sights of Kiev as well as Lviv.  In Kiev we saw the Iron Mamma, the war memorial, Lavra, holodomor memorial, Khreshchatyk St. and many more sites!  I learned so much about the history of Ukraine, Kiev and Lviv.  I really like old buildings and… doors, funny eh?  Anyway, Lviv was a great place to take pictures of both!  Ben, Jay, Lisa and I took the night train to get there (at 6am!!) and we walked up and down almost every street in the old part of Lviv.  It was absolutely amazing.  Not only did we cover lots of the streets but we went ‘under ground’ for supper, which included secret passageways and hidden doors!  We also had a dizzying climb to the top of the bell tower and had a fantastic view of the city!  At the end of the day we went back to the train station to wait for our train, which was scheduled to depart at midnight.  We arrived at about 9:30 and it was very nice to be off our feet after a long day of walking.  On the way back our train stopped for about an hour and that train car got quite warm – no need for those wool blankets. :)

Thanks Ben and Ang for being such great hosts!  It was wonderful to spend so much time with you and your kids.  May God bless you for the work you are doing in Kiev.

Mike.

Baptism

This last Saturday we had a church picnic and baptism. What a beautiful day it was and by that I don’t mean the weather. Oh, the weather was great too but what makes a baptism special is not the weather. It’s being a part of something incredible.

What is baptism? Maybe this is oversimplifying it a little, but it is an experience of identifying with Jesus. He loved us and so died an innocent death to give us new life. When someone is baptised, they are usually dunked under the water, symbolising death (death to sin) and then raised out of the water, symbolising new life, the new life they have received in Jesus Christ.

Two of our friends were baptised this Saturday. What a beautiful day it was. Congratulations Veronica and Pasha – Christ is risen and you have new life with him!

Property Work Day

Taking care of the properties used for serving people is clearly important. Whether its a building used for meetings, a van for transport or a beach for camps, the time spent in cleaning, maintenance and repairs is part and parcel of the opportunity to use them.

Here in Kyiv, we have a property with some buildings, fields for soccer and games, and a beautiful beach. Each gets used in different ways and by different groups. So for us its vital to be a part of taking care of them. Our visiting family (Ben’s sister Lisa and her husband Mike) contributed to our property care during the most recent property work day by spreading sand, picking rocks and building walls (part of an addition to the kitchen). Thanks for helping out!

Central Europe or Bust!

One of our teams headed to central Europe, to Hungary for the first month and then on to Latvia. They had some really cool opportunities, from teaching Revelation to entering a post-soviet prison teaching inmates how to read and study their Bible. Listen to Silvi share about some of her experience:

When I looked at their sincere eyes, smiles, and eagerness to participate I forgot that we were in a high security prison, sitting among murderers, rapists and thieves. We had been checked with a metal detector, our bags had been searched, the soda we brought smelled for alcohol, and our Bible’s leafed through for money. Even though the heavy doors were closed with a startling clang and if I ever wanted to go to the washroom I need to be escorted there by a guard – yet as we began to teach it was as if the window no longer had bars. The door was no longer locked. We were one family captured in the world of ‘Bible Overview’ or the story of Jonah.

When you ask people in your home groups to read the book of Acts maybe one or two will last it out past chapter five. We asked these guys to read the book of Acts in two days time and it was done and they had their list of questions for us! These young men of whom most had flunked out of their high school, and some of them very poor readers, were our most attentive audience!

Forbes 100 Wealthiest Billionaires

I read the list from Forbes and noticed that there were a lot of Russian’s on it. So I copied the list into excel and found that most (36) of the top 100 billionaires came from the United States (not surprising) but that 12 of 100 (2nd most) came from Russia.

Russia is not a poor country. Russia is incredibly wealthy in terms of natural resources, similar to Canada. But there is one glaring difference. In Canada, wealth is spread throughout the country (only 1 Canadian is in the richest 100). In Russia there are 12. Even taking into account population figures, 34 million in Canada to 140 million in Russia, about 4 Russians for 1 Canadian – the figure is startling. It is not a “fair” ballgame for Russians. Where did those Russian’s make their money – always in natural resources, either metals or fossil fuels.

What does it matter? What can I do? Pray. Pray that wealthy, important figures would meet Jesus. It has happened before that when unsavoury greedy people meet Jesus it transforms how they live and give (insert your favourite followers of Jesus, like Matthew the evangelist or Zacchaeus the wee little man). Pray that Russia would understand the gospel, brand new life without earning, without penance. Pray that peoples basic needs would be met, simple but adequate housing and warmth, hygiene (you take for granted your toilet, I know it because I do too), opportunities for work and pleasure. Not only lifestyle needs but inner needs too, mutually loving and beneficial relationships and joy-filled homes of peace. And if you’re like me, pray now because you’ll forget to later.

*One more side note, Ukraine also has 1 of the top 100 wealthiest men. The list below by country.

36 United States
12 Russia
7 Germany
4 Brazil
4 France
4 Hong Kong
4 India
4 Mexico
3 Chile
3 Sweden
2 Colombia
2 Italy
2 Malaysia
2 Saudi Arabia
1 Australia
1 Canada
1 China
1 Cyprus
1 Ireland
1 Japan
1 Nigeria
1 Spain
1 Switzerland
1 Ukraine
1 United Kingdom

Quiet

A quote by the trends manager at youtube. He told his young audience,

“We all want to be stars, celebrities, singers, comedians.” Not “most of us”, or “some of us”, but “we all.”

Of course, to be overly stereotypical, its true. To some degree we all want to be the object of someone else’s attention. I for one, however, am very thankful that I don’t need to be the extrovert ideal! Anyway, I just really wanted to copy the quote at the bottom from “Middlemarch”, because I really like it – even if I think its much more than just “partly” and “half”. If it weren’t for the countless unhistoric acts and those who live faithful hidden lives, where would this world be?

Below is part of an interesting article stemming from the youtube guy’s quote.

It’s refreshing, after this, to read an extract in yesterday’s Guardian from Susan Cain’s “Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World that Can’t Stop Talking”. Cain writes that we live with a value system she calls “the Extrovert Ideal—the omnipresent belief that the ideal self is gregarious, alpha and comfortable in the spotlight.” For Cain, this is “an oppressive standard to which most of us feel we must conform”.

The article finishes with this line.

As George Eliot wrote, 140 years ago, at the very end of “Middlemarch”:

for the growing good of the world is partly dependent on unhistoric acts; and that things are not so ill with you and me as they might have been, is half owing to the number who lived faithfully a hidden life, and rest in unvisited tombs.

The article was found on moreintelligentlife.com, a division of the economist.
* Just to be clear, the picture has no real connection to the article, just couldn’t find anything that really fit the content.

Whew!

That is the sigh that came out of my mouth when I thought about the past few months :) We started a new ministry team, got busy teaching in local churches around Kiev, and now we are on a teaching/recruiting tour of the SBS’s in Europe. Two weeks ago Angela went to Sweden to teach Leviticus in the SBS there. Looks like 2 students will be coming to do Titus this fall with us from there. After that we got home and a day later we all drove to Germany. This is where we will run Titus Project this fall, so we came to build relationships and teach in the SBS here. Ben taught ‘How to Preach’ and our friend Josh taught 1 &2 Samuel. Unfortunately, we have been having some visa problems so now we will stay here in Germany until the end of the month, and hopefully get everything all worked out. Please pray for us. Our kids are sick too, so pray for the kids…and the parents- cleaning up after they get sick is never fun.

Getting Personal

We try to make this blog a blend of our work that many of you support and follow, and also include events and exciting details of our personal lives as well. I’ve noticed that the last little while we have been focusing a lot on our work and it has been awhile since we have updated our personal lives.

So let’s get personal! We moved on January 31st, so the month of January was unpacking and setting things up! I just put up a whole bunch of pictures so you can get an idea of where we are living. The most exciting thing for us is having a yard. The house is actually smaller than our apartment we were in, but now we can send the kids outside to play!

My pregnancy is going well. I have a great doctor for all of my pre-delivery appointments etc. I still have to find a doctor/hospital for the delivery but that is in the to-do list for March. So far no complications! Hopefully we won’t experience the same thing as the last pregnancy of pre-labour with Jay.

Ben is doing well too. He has been doing lots of reading and is quite busy with our work, but personally he feels happy with where we are, our friendships etc.

I would say we are both a little apprehensive about having a third baby, we recognize that life will need some adjustments, but God is faithful and we trust Him to lead us, guide us, and give us the strength we need. We also miss our friends and family from home quite a bit. Since we don’t have internet at home it makes it even harder to connect with people. But I guess that is a reality of living life overseas.

Well, that was quite long, and personal, but probably a little overdue. Hope you are all doing well!!

Georgia … the Country, not the State

In Georgia our team had an amazing opportunity to teach at one of the only Kurdish churches in the world! We taught the book of 1 Peter to them, chapter by chapter every Saturday and Sunday Night for a month.

One particularly unique moment happened when we were teaching Chapter 3:1-6. These verses emphasize the influence that the behavior of believing wives can have on non-believing husbands. All of a sudden a few of the women started sharing that their husbands were not believers. We gathered them in the middle and prayed for them to have strength, wisdom and the ability to really live out this truth in their lives. The tears were flowing and the atmosphere was filled with a tangible presence of the Holy Spirit. It is moments like those that remind us why we are teaching God’s word!

Crucial Conversations

The leadership team we are a part of is reading together through this book, Crucial Conversations. It has been the perfect book to read because we are growing and learning together about all sorts of important things regarding have healthy, helpful, safe conversations with people. Our brother Ike recommended it to us and I think it is one of those books that everyone should read! One of the things I thought was really good is that the authors talk about how we have this false impression that if you are going to have a ‘hard talk’ with someone you either will be honest and destroy the relationship, or not say anything in order to keep peace, but that is the fools choice. In fact it is possible to be honest and still maintain relationships. Something else that they talked about is how often we lose sight of what is important when emotions get involved. We start trying to ‘win’ and make our point instead of just looking at what is the main goal of the discussion. This has been a great book for Ben and I to read in our marriage, in parenting, and in leadership. We highly recommend it!

Ukraine / Russia Article

One of the teams that we sent out stayed for one month in Ukraine and then moved on to the mid-west of Russia. Here is a quote from one of the interns, James from Germany:

“From the training time on God began to show me that teaching the bible and even teaching in general is not really about me as the teacher, it is all about honouring God and serving the people in my audience. As a teacher I can be so focused on myself and overly concerned with my performance and what people think of me, but I’ve come to realize that what really matters is what the audience “walks away with”. Throughout outreach I was able to put this revelation into practice and learn how to better make God’s word applicable to people of different backgrounds.

One of our main goals was to equip Ukrainian and Russian believers to study God’s word for themselves using inductive principles. We guided them through small books such as Philemon and Jonah and were amazed to see and hear what they “got out of it”. God gave us many opportunities to strengthen his body, the church, and encourage believers to dig deeper into the bible.
I think it is just amazing how God speaks to his people. Our audiences were encouraged by the truths they discovered and how these principles could be applied in their own lives. That is really what it is all about. We study and teach God’s word in order to be transformed, becoming more like him and giving him glory!”

Asia Update

In an earlier post, I mentioned we would like to highlight each of the teams that we sent out in October. The team on the left flew to Hong Kong and spent two months teaching there and in their northern neighbour. Their newsletter is the picture on the left – it’s a picture because the authorities in some countries scan all electronic information but if its a picture then the text is no longer text and basically, “unscannable”. Sylvie, one of the local leaders commented on their teaching, “in 10 years I haven’t seen anyone teach in such a way that ‘these people’ were able to understand!”

Thanks for being a part of sending Sonya, Tonya and Vicka to Asia!

** click the picture to see their update large enough to read the text :)