Focus
"The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failures, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company … a church … a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice every day regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past … we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude … I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% how I react to it. And so it is with you … we are in charge of our Attitude." – Chuck Swindoll
The Hospital
The hospital serves a very important place in our lives. The Greek guy who started it all had a great idea (you’ve heard the motto) – "to always do the best for our patients". (Hippocratic Oath)
Angela had her first appt in a long time and it went well – the baby is getting big, about 2.5 kg and the head is sitting down. The spine runs up from the head along the left side of her belly and the feet kick her ribs on the right side. To enjoy a similar feeling, simply place something belly (or rib) height around a corner, then have a friend phone you so that you are preoccupied, finally walk around the corner at full speed. How did you enjoy it?
Benjamin also made an appt for the doctor – a gastro something something -ologist. Parasite meet probe – actually, I really hope not. But I’m not quite sure what to expect. I’m really hoping it goes ok, otherwise many of you will get a surprising phone call – "pray for Ben, he’s stuck in quarantine – they think he’s got …". In all seriousness, its not that serious, so don’t go getting worried now.
A wiseguy (um, wise man) once mentioned that whether one was rich or poor, they would give everything to be healthy. Lets give a hand (or say a prayer) to those who day in and day out work overtime to restore our health. Much love, B & A.
A funny story
Emerging from the jungle…
As I sit down to write this blog entry it is really hard to know where to start- how do I summarize 2 months of amazing and difficult experiences? I’ll break it down into four areas:
Team: We had a team of six people 2 Americans, 2 Koreans and us. We actually had great team unity which is amazing considering we were together every day, all day, for 2 months. Our team was very diverse as far as personalities go, with some being extremely introverted and others extremely extroverted. We had a few small bumps along the way, but they were good for building character. Four of the six of us will continue to work with Titus Project leading teams in the future- so exciting!
Teaching & Preaching: Our main goal coming here was to train people HOW to study the Bible. In lots of the 9 villages we were able to do this, but in a few we focused on teaching them the big picture of the Bible using a story telling method. Of course, in every village the pastor would have us preach on the Sunday morning and usually another service during the week. They are used to having DTS teams come through here so we always had to explain that we didn’t do dances or skits but we were bible teachers :) Actually we did end up doing lots of skits with our teaching because the people loved it, but no dancing (Thankfully! Have you ever seen Ben dance???). One of the highlights was just this last week. YWAM Borneo was having a staff conference and asked us to train all the staff how to study their bibles. So for 25 hours we trained 30 full time workers that go out into the villages all the time. We went through the books of Titus and Ephesians and by the end of the seminar they REALLY seemed to get it. A great way to end.
Health and Pregnancy: This was probably the biggest challenge for us. We aren’t sure why, but Ben was often sick. Between the heat and the food, he often had no energy and his stomach was constantly bothering him. He threw up a few times too. The amazing thing is that whenever he had to teach or preach he had the energy and strength to get through and never missed one because of sickness. I was blessed with good health, only once or twice feeling a little sick. My tummy got bigger and bigger throughout the two months, and little Beaner kept getting more active. But God has really been so faithful and kept me healthy with no scares or fears. Being pregnant was also a great conversation starter with people everywhere we went.
Marriage: This was one of the unexpected surprises of this time in Indonesia. I thought that because of the lack of privacy and the uncomfortable conditions that it would be a challenge for our relationship, but actually it was the opposite. We’ve grown even closer, love each other even more and had some really fun times together.
There is so much more to write, but you will all just have to come to Taiwan and have coffee with us :) Hope you enjoy the short video (sorry mac users) and pictures! The video should be a little higher quality than usual but this also means it will take longer to load. We will be back in Taiwan by the 9th. Once we get home we will do our best to get back to writing emails and updating the web page regularly. Until then, please be patient with us :)
Return from the Villages
Indo
Freedom Festival #2- Time to party!
- When I was a young teen I was really concerned about pleasing people and being cool (who isn’t?!). That could have easily led to a very destructive lifestyle- but God freed me from that when I became a Christian and I decided that pleasing Hiim was more important!
- The pressures of society to be successful in the eyes of the world, even though success does not lead to happiness and so am freed to pursue meaning and purpose rather than money and success.
- Freedom from a bad, unheathly relationship after highschool
- Most importantly, the feeling of freedom and confidence that comes from the forgiveness and grace of God through Jesus in my life.
- A family who loves me and parents who have stayed together. (x2 now that I am married!)
- My husband who could not be more amazing- he makes me feel loved, appreciated and special everyday!
- A close friend, who really is more of a sister, since I was 4 who led me to Jesus and has always been there for me! Not to mention the many other WONDERFUL friends I have been blessed with.
- A new baby growing inside me that is going to be a blessing to the world.
Ole!
Learning to be a Teacher
We ate what???
Tongue Twisters and Paint Brushes
Old Faithful
2008 is here!
Celebrating Christmas
We enjoyed a relaxing Christmas morning, phoning our families (their Christmas Eve) and opening the gifts we got for each other after listening to a wonderful sermon on the birth of the King and reading the Christmas Story.
There was no sleeping in though, because some local friends invited us for four days of adventure in South Taiwan. We sang some Karaoke, played ping-pong, snorkeled and walked the night market strip. There was also a fair bit of driving and a long slow train-ride, but those don’t deter us too much. Our friends treated us to wonderful Taiwanese delights like Hot Pot, Pork dumplings and plenty of rice. The best part about it all was spending time with them and getting to know them more because we will all be together in 2 weeks for the Titus course. They gave us a wonderful glimpse of Taiwan life and the beautiful land that is theirs.
A Merry Christmas indeed. Shèng Dàn Kuài Le.
ps. We have been trying to figure out a way for mac users to view our videos- unfortunately we haven’t yet succeeded but don’t worry- we’ll keep trying. In the meantime, here is the pre-Christmas video we tried to post last week. A little late…but enjoy :)
Holopchi and Perogies
A religious movement with an edge
A religious movement with an edge –Youth With a Mission takes in just about anyone — even an unstable young man who would later shoot and kill 4 in Colorado. By Nicholas Riccardi, Los Angeles Times Staff Writer. December 18, 2007
COLORADO SPRINGS, COLO. — Paul Filidis thought little of Christianity as he backpacked through Afghanistan in the early 1970s, searching for top-grade hashish and Eastern enlightenment. Then his passport was stolen and he took shelter with a group of missionaries who had moved to Kabul to help wanderers on the hippie trail. "They looked just like me," Filidis said. The missionaries took Filidis in and helped him get a new passport. Filidis, who had believed Christianity was only for old people, eventually became a convert. He has spent the last three decades with that group, Youth With a Mission. His 20-year-old, tongue-pierced daughter, Noelle, just finished a YWAM mission to India, where she nursed sick villagers and was attacked by a mob of Hindu fundamentalists.
Youth With a Mission is a nondenominational Christian network that takes in just about anyone — punk rockers, misfits, retired engineers, schoolteachers, fresh-faced teens. After a little training, they are sent to preach the Gospel in some of the most dangerous parts of the globe. That nonconformist approach brought tragedy to the group last week when Matthew Murray, who had been expelled for apparent mental health problems, fatally shot four people — two at the Arvada Youth With a Mission office near Denver and two at New Life Church in Colorado Springs — before killing himself.
"YWAM has been known as a mission that believes in young people and gives them a chance," said Jarod Marshall, 32, a staffer in the Colorado Springs branch. "You believe in people, and there’s a risk in that — but it’s a risk worth taking." Youth With a Mission is considered avant-garde, on the "bleeding edge" of the evangelical movement, said A. Scott Moreau, a professor at Wheaton College in Illinois who studies mission programs. "They are passionate, they are a bit wild," Moreau said. "A lot of agencies are wondering how they’re going to mobilize this generation. YWAM has figured it out."
One veteran calls YWAM (the acronym is regularly pronounced Why-Wham and members are known as YWAMers) a Christian Peace Corps. Projects include working with prostitutes in Holland and orphans in Mexico, and providing clean drinking water or dental care in Third World countries. Youth With a Mission also launched the Reconciliation Walk, a 1,500-mile trek through Turkey and the Middle East to atone for violence perpetrated in the name of Christianity during the Crusades.
It was "the attitude in YWAM that wants to serve, that wants to take the lower road rather than the higher road, that will do the dirty work," Filidis said. Filidis recounted one mission that he views as emblematic of YWAM’s hands-on approach — working in refugee camps in Southeast Asia after the fall of Saigon, since renamed Ho Chi Minh City. YWAMers volunteered to take care of the latrines and spent hours standing in human excrement. A U.N. report noted the group’s commitment to doing practical work, no matter how unpleasant. "I hope we never lose that," he said. The intention is not simply to rack up converts, he said. "We can’t provide a spiritual solution" to poor people, Lang said, "unless we can come into their lives and provide practical solutions as well."
The group’s 1,000 bases are linked solely by the three-month training course consisting of lectures and workshops on biblical principles, plus an official set of shared values. The bases independently stage missions. The bases are a cross between Christian crash pads and college dorms. The Colorado Springs branch is in a former hotel. The dining room has been converted into a coffee bar — fixed up with worn couches, tables and board games — that is the scene for all-night discussions. Many of the 120 staffers live in the hotel rooms, as do the few dozen students who cycle through every three months.
Gil Datz, the base’s worship coordinator, said that the emphasis on communal learning and living means YWAMers learn a lot about their colleagues. "It means a guy like Matt Murray [the shooter] cannot hide," he said. Murray enrolled in 2002 at the base in Arvada, about 80 miles from here. Staffers there decided he should not finish the program because of unspecified health problems that would have made it "unsafe," so he left. He returned five years later, just after midnight on Sunday, Dec. 9, and asked to stay the night. Staffers said no. He opened fire, wounding two and killing Philip Crouse, 24, and Tiffany Johnson, 26. Twelve hours later he killed two teenage girls at New Life Church in Colorado Springs before being shot by an armed volunteer security guard. Murray then killed himself.
Crouse and Johnson embodied Youth With a Mission’s edgy approach. Crouch was a former skinhead who hoped to reach angry teens; Johnson had started a skateboarding ministry to help alienated youths. Many YWAMers point out that Murray was the sort of person they would want to help. "That’s what makes the issue with Matthew so painful," said Jeremy Pyhala, 33, a Colorado Springs staffer. "We look at him with potential."
Music in the Air
Angela loves to decorate for Christmas. Decorations and music create an atmosphere of joy and cheer, times of family and love and gifts and all things wonderful.
It all began one simple day with a package from home including a CD performed by The Handymen. It begins with a resounding rendition of "Hammers We Have Heard On High" and concludes with "The Twelve Tools of Christmas". A great little gift on which you can hear nearly every tool in a good carpenters workshop. This whet the appetite of a hungry lioness – the burning passion of decoration fever.
The decoration prowess of a woman creating atmosphere – Angela began the HUNT. The first opportunity came in one of the bigger malls. There she found about six CD`s, but which one to choose? One caught her attention, on sale for $5, it was like the young or sick in a pack of wild antelope. The cover claimed "40 Non-Stop Christmas Carols" including all the favourite oldies. Upon successful catch she was rather disappointed to learn, its one single song (so you can’t pick and choose which song you’d like to hear). Somewhat nutritious but not the appetite satisfying prey she was hoping to find.
Then, last week a new pack of prey arrived! A Christmas CD with many favourite’s – juicy and tempting and it even was on sale. With a lunge she brought it down – and upon arriving home discovered it was a fake. Instead of the Christmas CD under all that fur & plastic, it was a totally different CD inside, done by the same people but NO Christmas songs on it.
So today we sit at home, listening to the power tools play Christmas songs for us. The lioness has been outrun by Christmas music this year (although when we have guests we do put on the 40 non stop [literally] Christmas Carols which we are quite grateful for).
We think of you at home often and joy and love fill our hearts. Enjoy this week before Christmas!
Thank you!
Praying for Mom
Being away from home is always hard, but right now it is even harder. Mom Doerksen is going to be having a surgery tomorrow (Wednesday) and we wish we could be there with her to support her through this. The amazing thing is that she has so much support and love from the family and friends near her, so we take comfort in knowing that she is loved and cared for. The other amazing thing is that we can pray no matter where we are, and we know it makes a difference. We trust that God will take care of her throughout the surgery. Please join us in praying for her on Wednesday as she goes through this high risk surgery. We’ll update this web site as soon as we know how everything goes.
