We often tell our kids we’re on their team. Every choice we make is considering them. These are the gifts we’re working to give them โ not wrapped in paper, but built into their lives.
Gift 01
The ability to create music
Music is a language of its own. We want our kids to know how to make it โ not just listen to it.
Gift 02
A strong work ethic and ambition
We want them to show up, to try hard, and to care about doing things well โ whatever they put their hands to.
Gift 03
The ability to communicate in more than one language
Language opens doors โ to people, cultures, and places. Exposure to more than one is a gift that keeps giving.
Gift 04
Wisdom in using financial resources
Not just how to earn money, but how to steward it well โ with generosity, patience, and good judgment.
Gift 05
A sense of adventure and love for beautiful places
We want them to get outside, explore, and develop a real sense of wonder for the world God made.
Gift 06
A desire to love God and love others
Above everything else on this list, this is what we want their lives to be shaped by.
Gift 07
The ability to think well
Discerning truth from deception โ especially in news, media, and the arts. We want them to be thoughtful, not just informed.
Gift 08
Self-discipline in screens, food, and sleep
The basics matter more than we often admit. We’re trying to help them build healthy rhythms that will serve them for life.
Gift 09
Strong family roots and ties
We want them to know where they come from and to feel deeply connected โ to us, to each other, and to the story they’re part of.
Gift 10
The opportunity to study what they love
We want to provide for them the opportunity to learn something they would love to do for a vocation that has meaning and blesses the world they live in, this often includes college and we want them prepared for that.
Gift 11
A love for God’s Word
Not just knowing it’s important, but actually wanting to read it. We hope it becomes something they reach for daily, on their own.
Gift 12
Independence and basic life skills
Cooking, cleaning, sewing, gardening, building โ and more. We want them to be capable, confident people who can take care of themselves and others.
This list isn’t exhaustive โ but it reflects what we hope to pass on. We are on our kids’ team, every single day.
Every family has a rhythm โ those little rituals and recurring moments that, when you look back, end up defining your life together more than almost anything else. Here’s a peek at ours, season by season.
๐ฑ Spring
Spring starts indoors for us โ we plant seeds inside first and watch them sprout on the windowsill before eventually moving them outside to the garden. It’s a slow, hopeful kind of tradition. Spring is also when most of the kids’ birthdays fall, so it’s a season full of celebrations, birthday parties, and a lot of cake.
โ๏ธ Summer
Summer is full. We do the Rollkuchen, slice into watermelon, and follow the Winnipeg Bombers (even from overseas). And camping at Blue Lake and Five Cabins is one of those anchoring summer traditions we come back to year after year.
๐ Fall
First day of school photos โ every year, no exceptions. Then Thanksgiving, which we love to share with Canadians (or really anyone who needs a table if there are no Canadians nearby). Pumpkin pie is non-negotiable. And when the mood strikes, we’ve been known to make a batch of homemade applesauce.
โ๏ธ Winter
Hockey season means following the Winnipeg Jets. Come Christmas, the house smells like cinnamon buns โ we make them every year. And New Year’s Eve? Fondue and a murder mystery envelope. It’s become one of those traditions that everyone looks forward to more than they probably admit.
๐ All year long
Reading before bed. Reading the Bible at dinner โ we did this more faithfully when the kids were younger, but it still shows up. Weekend adventures: hiking, biking, exploring wherever the road takes us. Weekend breakfasts like waffles, and an open-door policy for brunch. We love having people over. And every birthday, we sign each other’s birthday books โ a small thing that adds up to something really meaningful over the years.
Maddy did her DTS in Lausanne a few years ago, then she went for some additional training with YWAM in a Bible school called the Discipleship Bible School. Since then, she has been serving at YWAM Lausanne in this same program and loving it! We also love it! Having other YWAMers in our family, here in Europe, is so much fun as every once in awhile, our paths cross!
In this past year alone I have taught many books/topics: Church history and heresies, Introduction to the Prophets and Amos, Gospel of Matthew, Revelation. Every time I receive lots of feedback: “Are you recording the teachings”, “I wish I could do the SBS”, “I would love to hear more about those books!” BUT I have heard nothing about Numbers. No feedback, no excitementโฆ
Why? Letโs start with the title.
Genesis
Hebrew word which means โin the beginning.โ This is simply the first word of the book. The Greek translation bears the title Genesis, โbeginning,โ which in this case is almost an exact translation of the Hebrew word and is also a good description of the actual contents of the book. English transliterated the word: Genesis.
Exodus
Hebrew words it begins with: โand these are the names.โ Or sometimes: โNames.โ This Hebrew title, however, gives no idea of the contents of the book. While the book begins by naming the sons of Jacob who went down into Egypt, this is purely introductory. In the Greek translation a descriptive title was substituted, consisting of the Greek word Exodos, which means โgoing out.โ This title is an excellent description of the contents of the book, and is clearly an improvement over the Hebrew designation. English- Transliterated
Leviticus
Hebrew Bible, the title of the third book consists of its first word, โand he called.โ This gives practically no idea of its contents. )In the Greek translation the word Leuitikon was substituted, indicating that the book contains directions for the activities of the Levitical priests and their Levitical assistants. English- Transliterated
Numbers: We will skip and come back to it
Deuteronomy
Hebrew is titled by its first two words โand these are the words.โ This is very similar to the title of Exodus, โand these are the names,โ or of Leviticus, โand he called.โ The Greek version has substituted the title Deuteronomion, which means โSecond Law.โ Moses is repeating the law, so it means 2nd law. Thus, the Greek title aptly describes the contents of the book, and is very appropriate. English- Transliterated, but there are no English speakers that would understand it means second law.
Summary
In three of these four instances, The Greek improves the title, letting us know the contents more clearly. While in the case of Genesis, the two are substantially identical. In all four cases, our English Bibles use a simple transliteration of the Greek word. Surely it would have been better if these titles had been translated into English instead of being merely transliterated from the Greek.
So now Numbers:
Numbers
Hebrew Bible, it is not its first word, but its fourth, that is used as a title which means โin the wildernessโThis word forms an admirable description of the contents of the book. The Greek translators gave it a descriptive title, which instead of fitting excellently, as in the case of the other four books, is not at all well selected. It is Arithmos. It is a mathematical term.
In English, instead of transliterating the Greek title, we have in this ONE instance translated it. So first a bad choice of the title in Greek, now made worse in English: Numbers. This makes it seem like a dry list of statistics. If a few chapters were taken out, there would be less numbers remaining than in many another book of the Bible.
I was chatting with a friend who said he didnโt like the book of Numbers. After a little discussion we realized he actually meant Chronicles. So again, the title doesnโt help one to remember the content/message of the book.
It is actually sad, because Numbers is one of my favorite books of the Pentateuch and really shows so many important timeless truths!
Theology โ What do we learn about God? That He is faithful to his promise to dwell with man. He desires to make his face shine upon mankind. That He is Holy and Perfect, and makes a way where there seems to be no way. That He is just and does what is right. He is merciful and slow to anger.
We see that the death and resurrection of Jesus is absolutely crucial for us to be able to be in Godโs presence.
Describes the temptations and the challenges we have as believers as we await the promised land.
Describes the age of tension and helps us see how to finish the Christian life well.
It also shows that rebellion against Godโs ways does not lead to the place where God dwells with his people.
This may be the most relevant book in the Torah for us as believers today! Such a great book, it is too bad more believers don’t take the time to study it deeply. If you would like a good commentary to read on this book, I highly recommend L. Michael Morales and his commentary
We were back in Canada and as I was singing some songs to Jesus, this idea popped in my head. How could I introduce people at home to the people we minister to? We always try a variety of methods to communicate, but this would be something a little bit different. Instead of long video updates, I would interview people that I teach with just a couple of questions. Keep the videos under 2-3 minutes, and let those who send us meet those we work with. So this was my first attempt. I still need to buy a tripod (my phone is balanced on a table) to hopefully get the angle and quality a little better, but still, this is start.
Enjoy! Ps. If you like this and would like to see more of them, you can subscribe to the playlist on youtube, or subscribe to this blog (on the right) and I will be posting them here. :)
We have been praying this blessing over our sweet daughter for years as she left for school, and we will continue to pray this over her during her final year at high school: “The Lord bless you and keep you, the Lord make his face shine upon you and be gracious to you, the Lord turn His face towards you and give you peace.” Numbers 6:24-26 The best is yet to come!
On March 4, every year, I will remember how thankful I am to have had the best mom. If she was still here, I would have called her, wished her a happy birthday, have sent her a beautiful bouquet because she loved flowers, and have had a nice chat about what she and my dad have done today to celebrate her. I miss her so much.
Lately I have been going through our family photos so that I can make a memory book for each year. Of course, I come across so many that make me smile, especially ones of my mom and dad being amazing grandparents, and sometimes my mom just being silly (like holding up a book about Cranbrook). Here are a few from 2011 when we were in Canada visiting, and from 2012 when my parents came to Ukraine after Kai was born.
I love fall. I love the colours changing, I love the new season of beginning. The routine after a summer of relaxation begins.
The kids are back in school and SBS is in the final quarter! It will be a great fall that is for sure! There are 22 DTS students coming from around the world and from Kyiv to have their lives changed and turned upside down! They will learn what it means to live with an eternal perspective. They will practice living life with spiritual ears turned towards God and both hands outstretched towards others to help in this life.
Picture and videos to come in the next day or two from summer and kids going back to school!
It is August 11, school starts again for the kids in 12 days! That means we have to get organized, cleaned up and supplied for the first day! Always an exciting day! We bought the kids their new school shoes from Ashan (like Walmart) and put them aside for the first day of school. The kids are all excited!
It has been a fun summer, we have tried to organize fun things that didn’t cost too much money, along with some special events like a ballet, a water park and Ninja house. Of course there was a lot of down time too, just hanging around, reading books, playing and of course sibling arguments, all of the good stuff that summers are made from. We did our best to limit screen time to 60 minutes a week, sometimes adding a few extra videos on extra hot days or when Mom was going crazy.
Life didn’t slow down for Ben with the SBS, lots of people studying the Bible and getting closer to God. It has been fun, but I would also say a bit tiring. We are looking forward to a few days break for our 15th anniversary in September.
Hope your summer was a fun and fulfilling as ours!
ps. We had an awesome roofing team come from Canada and help us put a new roof on one of our YWAM buildings. It was from Ben’s sister’s church, so that was SUPER special!!!
Check out our pictures from the summer on the link or here: Summer Time Fun!
At the beginning of 2016 I began the journey of writing the thesis for last part of my Master’s Degree in Biblical Studies. ย This past week I finally completed this huge project in my life! (You can read the thesis attached to this post if you would like). It was quite the road to travel. I learned a lot about myself and had to learn how to keep persevering even when it felt like there was still so much to do! I want to acknowledge many people that helped me with this project:
Many people helped me to write this thesis. First, I am thankful for the team of people that send and partner financially with our family. I could not have taken the time to study, nor could we do ministry here in Ukraine and in the surrounding countries without them. I want to acknowledge the team of overseas workers that we partner with here at YWAM Ukraine, specifically our Team.710 biblical studies circle as well as the leadership team. I have been less available to teach and lead due to the time it takes to complete a project such as this. I am grateful to them for their grace and patience. Special thanks goes to the 40 people who willingly volunteered to be a part of this research, dedicating 28 mornings and evenings to complete the program. I am also very thankful that my home pastor, Bruce Adams, has always encouraged my husband and me to continue academic studies in the midst of ministry.
I also want to express my deep gratitude to my supervisor, Dr. Wilrens Hornstra. He never failed to push me to be concrete in my aims, narrow in my target and broad in my application. He challenged me personally with the content of the study, as well as professionally in excellence. His numerous revisions and comments helped my language to be more precise and consistent. He also helped me to think deeply and critically, and yet have a positive outlook, on the results of the study. The process of writing this thesis lasted over a year and he always made time every week to pray with me and talk me through the next step, I truly would not have completed this study without him.
My family has patiently watched me focus and study day after day, usually waking up to find me at the computer. My husband has taken on extra responsibilities with ministry and our family throughout this year as I have sought to grow deeper. Iโm so thankful that God has given me such a wonderful family, and specifically a supportive, faithful husband. My parents have also always challenged me to do my best and to never stop learning.
And lastly, I want to thank God whose purpose for me in this masterโs thesis has been much deeper than completing a degree. It has been to truly experience theosis in my personal life. I pray that this process does not stop now that I have completed this thesis, but that I grow more and more to be the human that God designed, empowered by the Holy Spirit living within me.
Whenever someone asks Ben or I to come and teach, whether it be in a DTS, or on an SBS we always pray and ask God if this is the right decision for our family. Especially because we live on support, so every trip we take is using finances that others have blessed us with.
Well this trip was no different. A past SBS graduate who is now leading a DTS in Wales asked me (Angela) if I could come teach a week on holiness to the students. After praying about it Ben and I both felt that it was to be me and Cassie! Her first trip with one of her parents to teach. We had a great time! I wanted to share what one of the students wrote to me, not because it is about me, but to say thank you to those who send us overseas.
Angela is very passionate in teaching holiness. What she brings in teaching is what she is also pursuing in living out so I was encouraged to listen all the more carefully. She is very creative in making her teaching interactive, and the thought and effort she put in to that made me feel loved and special. We are so grateful that she and Cassie were able to come.
Thank you to the many that pray and send us! We would be unable to do this work without all of you!!!
This past year I have been working on my thesis for my Masters Degree in Biblical Studies. It has been a really fun thesis as I have been studying the early church fathers and how their writings can be helpful and more applicable to evangelical Christians.
I’m looking for people who would be willing to help me with the research portion of the thesis. It would be a bit of a commitment (15-20 minutes a day for 28 days) so consider carefully if you could participate, but I believe it will also add value to your spiritual life. It could be a major turning point in your life!…or maybe not. That is why it is research :)
Here is what helping looks like:
First, you will fill out a short 5 -10 question survey (just marking a number for each question).
Second, I will mail you a 28 day devotional booklet. When you receive it you will need to spend 10-15 minutes every morning doing a ‘devotional’ A short reading, 5 minutes to think and pray, and then sometimes there might be a small spiritual ‘practice’ like writing something down, praying something specific etc. Finally at the end of the day you would need to take 5 minutes to answer a question in the booklet.
Third, at the end of the 28 days I will ask you to fill in another very short survey.
If you are willing to help me (I need about 60 volunteers) I would really appreciate it! If you know anyone else that is a Canadian and would agree that they are an evangelical Christian I am open to anyone participating in this research project.
If you are interested and able to help- please email me before September 13. I would love to get these booklets in the mail and have people started by October. My thesis deadline is the end of the year.
Musings? Okay, weird word, but it is early friday morning so I am in a bit of a weird mood :)
This past week our YWAM Kyiv Leadership team took 4 full days to meet, pray, and plan for the next year. It was a wonder-full time! One morning we read through Psalms 119 and I was once again so encouraged and thankful to have the Word of God, the Bible. In this Psalm there is a balance between the responsibility of the reader of God’s word to be active and God’s part of opening the reader’s heart and mind to understand. “I will run in the way of your commandments when you enlarge my heart (119:32).” I love the way this psalms talks about the effects of knowing and living according the to word of God. “Your testimonies are wonderful; therefore my soul keeps them. The unfolding of your words gives light;it imparts understanding to the simple.( 119:129-130).”
So as a Bible teacher, I am privileged to bring God’s word to people. This past summer I have had the chance to teach a few people how to study the Bible for themselves. Now that we are back in Ukraine, I will be teaching new people how to teach the Bible to others in just a few weeks!
This morning I was reading in 1 Timothy 4:6. Many people partner with Ben and I as we hear these words from Paul to Timothy and sense the calling on our lives to do the same, “If you put these things before the brothers and sisters, you will be a good servant of Christ Jesus, being trained in the words of the faith and of the good doctrine that you have followed.”
Billy Wilder, the great movie producer, openly admitted: “I have a vast and terrible desire never to bore an audience.” With tacit agreement Jack Parr once declared: “The greatest sin is to be dull.”
Those two statements ought to haunt anyone who regularly practices the fine art of communication.
Communication is a competitive field. Like it or not, the teacher, writer, speaker, or preacher contends with ABC, NBC, CBS, CNN, Rush Limbaugh, magazines, paperbacks, CDs, the theater, the cinema, the thrilling excitement of sporting events, and a zillion other attractions. Pity the missionary whose letter arrives in the same mail with Sports Illustrated or Newsweek. God help the Sunday evening services across America that do battle with60 Minutes and Masterpiece Theater.
Today’s communicator faces a stiffer challenge than ever before. This means that we who communicate Christ must work especially hard at winning and then maintaining a hearing. This doesn’t mean we need to put on a better show or shout louder or attack our competition. What it does mean is that we must meet at least three demands.
We must be prepared. Basically, it necessitates doing our homework. But it also means we must determine what ought to remain behind the counter, held in reserve, and what ought to be placed on display. It’s the art of verbal economy.
We must be interesting. We must paint verbal pictures for the uninitiated, preoccupied mind to see. To do this we need energy, subtlety, relevance, and changes of pace.
We must be practical. Communicating the Scriptures is more than dumping out a truckload of biblical facts; it means using those facts to meet practical, everyday needs.
Communicating is like fishing. We need to provide the right lures and bait to attract our listeners.
Check out Paul’s address on Mars Hill (Acts 17) or Stephen’s defense before the Council (Acts 7) or Jesus’ great sermon on the mountain (Matt. 5โ7) or His conversation with Nicodemus (John 3). Not a rusty hook in the bunch!
Funny thing about fish: They keep their eyes open even when they’re bored and sound asleep. Myopic communicators tend to forget that.
We encourage our kids to ask it lots, but do we? Why do we do the things we do? Live in the place we do? Work the job that we do?
Today in our staff connection time we asked our staff the question: Why?
Why do you do your ministry?
Why in Ukraine?
Why with YWAM Kyiv?
For me, I’ve thought about this lots, as have most of our staff, because so many people ask us, “Why are you working in Ukraine? Isn’t it dangerous?”
I am a bible teacher because I believe that God left us this beautiful collection of writings that span over 4000 years to teach us about Him, His purpose for the world and His Kingdom that will one day be fully established on Earth. It is a powerful book that cuts to the heart.
I am in Ukraine because I feel that this is the place that God wants me to be. It is a country that needs the truth, love and freedom of Christ. (www.ywamkyiv.org)
I’m with YWAM because it is an organization that focuses on adventure, young people, hearing God’s voice, community and faith in God to do the impossible (www.ywam.org/)
It is good to remember these things, because in the tough moments, the challenges of life, the way I answer the question ‘why?’ is what helps me to persevere.
Ten years ago, on this night, I went to bed early while my brother Jonathan and four of my best friends, Kyle, Juergen, Shaun and Colin were hanging out in the living room. Kind of strange. Maybe. I was of course, on the verge of getting married -the step in life that one is ever really prepared for. Well, tomorrow on our tenth anniversary we are doing well. We’ve definitely had our ups and downs. We’ve hurt each other, we’ve loved each other, we’ve begun raising three kids, nearly gone over the edge a few times and here we are today, as my wife continually reminds me, “Tomorrow is going to be special, because tomorrow I will love you even more than I do already!”Ang – you’re incredible!
In each of these sections one item could be added that I have not listed, namely, How do you handle and live with differences? How do you decide what can remain differences without jeopardizing the relationship? So as you deal with each subheading, include that in the discussion.
Theology
What do you believe about…everything?
Perhaps read through theย Desiring God Affirmation of Faithย to see where each other is on various biblical doctrines.
Discover how you form your views. What is the reasoning-believing process? How do you handle the Bible?
Worship and Devotion
How important is corporate worship? Other participation in church life?
How important is it to be part of a small accountability/support group?
What is the importance of music in life and worship?
What are your daily personal devotional practices? Prayer, reading, meditation, memorization.
What would our family devotions look like? Who leads out in this?
Are we doing this now in an appropriate way: praying together about our lives and future, reading the Bible together?
Husband and Wife
What is the meaning of headship and submission in the Bible and in our marriage?
What are expectations about situations where one of you might be alone with someone of the opposite sex?
How are tasks shared in the home: cleaning, cooking, washing dishes, yard work, car upkeep, repairs, shopping for food, and household stuff?
What are the expectations for togetherness?
What is an ideal non-special evening?
How do you understand who and how often sex is initiated?
Who does the checkbookโor are there two?
Children
If and when, should we have children? Why?
How many?
How far apart?
Would we consider adoption?
What are the standards of behavior?
What are the appropriate ways to discipline them? How many strikes before theyโre…whatever?
What are the expectations of time spent with them and when they go to bed?
What signs of affection will you show them?
What about school? Home school? Christian school? Public school?
Lifestyle
Own a home or not? Why?
What kind of neighborhood? Why?
How many cars? New? Used?
View of money in general. How much to the church?
How do you make money decisions?
Where will you buy clothes: Department store? Thrift store? In between? Why?
Entertainment
How much money should we spend on entertainment?
How often should we eat out? Where?
What kind of vacations are appropriate and helpful for us?
How many toys? Snowmobile, boat, cabin?
Should we have a television? Where? What is fitting to watch? How much?
What are the criteria for movies and theater? What will our guidelines be for the kids?
Conflict
What makes you angry?
How do you handle your frustration or anger?
Who should bring up an issue that is bothersome?
What if we disagree both about what should be done,ย andย whether it is serious?
Will we go to bed angry at each other?
What is our view of getting help from friends or counselors?
Work
Who is the main breadwinner?
Should the wife work outside the home? Before kids? With kids at home? After kids?
What are your views of daycare for children?
What determines where you will locate? Job? Whose job? Church? Family?
Friends
Is it good to do things with friends but without spouse?
What will you do if one of you really likes to hang out with so and so and the other doesnโt?
Health and Sickness
Do you have, or have you had any, sicknesses or physical problems that could affect our relationship? (Allergies, cancer, eating disorders, venereal disease, etc.)
Do you believe in divine healing and how would prayer relate to medical attention?
How do you think about exercise and healthy eating?
Do you have any habits that adversely affect health?
John Piper is the Pastor for Preaching and Vision at Bethlehem Baptist Church (Minneapolis, MN) and the founder of Desiring God.
Saying goodbye is never easy, but especially when it has been such an amazing month! Having my parents here has been such a blessing in so many ways: from good company, lots of exciting events exploring Kyiv and Lviv (even visiting the village that our ancestors come from!), getting projects done together (like putting up pictures and weeding the gardens), and most importantly watching our kids light up with delight every time they wake up because Nanna and Grandpa are still here!
I wish there wasn’t such a thing as goodbye, but I suppose that the only way to avoid goodbyes is to not have hellos and I wouldn’t give up this past month for anything! Thank you Mom and Dad for taking the time to come ~ it will never be forgotten by any of us!
Our friends are out of town for a little while so we are planning to leave a small welcome home basket in their apartment for when they return. We were thinking some fruit, chocolate, maybe a few canned drinks.
Today as we told our Ukrainian friend about our plans to put a little welcome basket in their place she asked us, ‘Will it be Borscht?’ (the local Ukrainian soup). We laughed at how two countries customs can be so different. Yum! Borscht would be a great welcome home gift!