Teaching Children To Think

Currently I am reading Sally Clarkson’s Mission of Motherhood (this is one of those books I would buy for all new mothers if I could). She shared a story about how her family loves to talk, debate and discuss issues. This sounds a lot like our family. Since I am one of those peace-loving people that usually feels uncomfortable in a strong discussion, I have been trying to encourage myself to allow for these strong debates that naturally occur in our family. Here is what Clarkson says:

“This story (told in the past few paragraphs) depicts our everyday lives – opinions stated, issues debated, topics taught and learned, questions asked, books and experts quoted, and heartfelt convictions passionately shared while washing dishes, eating meals, or sitting around the living room drinking tea. And even tough they may occasionally get out of hand, these discussions, perhaps more than any other family activity have shaped our children’s lives for the better.

Why are such discussions important?…They teach our children to think about Jesus – and to think biblically about every aspect of their lives! They are part of an ongoing process of sharpening minds, focusing thoughts, and allowing biblical truth to shape our mental processes as well as fill our hearts.” Clarkson, S. (2003). The Mission of Motherhood: Touching Your Child’s Heart of Eternity. WaterBrook. p. 100.

I am thankful for a family where we all allow each other to grow, learn and be challenged – even if that means sometimes the peace is disrupted for awhile.

Never a dull moment with Ben

While I was in Amsterdam teaching, Ben decided it was time for him to make soup. This coming from a man who is not a big soup fan, and a man who is not a big cooking fan! But he did make soup, and it was pretty tasty according to the kids!

The next surprise was that he decided it would be fun to watch seeds grow- so a new experiment of planting different kinds of seeds in jars began!

Finally, on Sunday we were home from church and Ben decided to make soup AGAIN! This time he looked up a recipe for homemade tomato soup and it was delicious, served with grilled cheese, so yummy!

So this is the crazy life with Ben. It is never a dull moment as he constantly looks for new adventures in life- even in the kitchen or in a homemade garden. I love this man!

Science and Philosophy – a new adventure.

This past summer I had been listening to a podcast where the speaker was talking about the importance of philosophy, and how children aren’t taught it today in school in many countries, which is why their ability to think and discern is stunted. I was intrigued, and so our family began a course on introduction to philosophy this past summer. We haven’t finished it yet, but once we get the hang of this busy school schedule mixed with our teaching schedules, we will get back to it. (Jay’s science teacher was quite stunned that Jay knew who Aristotle and Plato were!)

I mention that because it led me to a professor of philosophy, J.P. Moreland, he has some very interesting thoughts (check him out on youtube, just search his name). In one of his presentations at a college, he mentioned the story of Lee Strobel having an impact on him. Have you ever heard of Lee Strobel? He has written several books, but I thought his story was worth posting as someone who has a master’s in law and also experience in journalism, which may be areas that our children go into…who knows. It is a bit of a read, but I really appreciate his willingness to study and search, and I would just like to preserve this here on our website for our kids to read one day. I think you might like it too.
Lee Strobel:

A former atheist, Lee holds a Master of Studies in Law degree from Yale Law School, was an investigative newspaper reporter, and was the award-winning legal editor of the Chicago Tribune.

I was an atheist for most of my life. I thought that the idea of an all powerful, all loving God was just silly. I learned in school that evolution was where life came from, so what do you need God for? And I had a lot of self-motivation for living an atheistic lifestyle. I was living a very immoral life and a drunken life, life that was really a hundred percent focused on journalism.

Right from journalism school I went to the Chicago Tribune, which was unusual; but I had so much experience for a kid…because I knew since I was a little kid what I wanted to do. So I started as a general-assignments reporter. I went to Yale to get my masters in law, came back as a legal editor, covered federal courts, covered criminal courts, covered the Illinois Supreme Court and really enjoyed it but without God, without a moral framework, my personal life was out of control, the drinking, the carousing. I had no moral framework of how to do journalism so I would do whatever it took to get the story. I would steal; I would commit a federal crime by stealing federal documents from the courthouse. I made friends with the court clerk, and he allowed me to go by myself into the court files; and so I would go in there, and I would beat the competition all the time by finding all this wonderful stuff in the court files that no one knew about. So when I would find something particularly juicy, I would slip it under my vest, and I would steal it so when the story broke, the competition couldn’t find the documents. Then I gave it a day or two, then I put it back. I figured it was worth it because I never got caught.

My wife was agnostic. She had virtually no experience with church growing up. She never really thought much about God. Then, one day we moved into an apartment building; and the woman downstairs was a Christian. And she built a friendship with my wife, and they became best friends. And they would talk and spend time together. It was very natural in their conversations for Linda to share her faith with my wife, Leslie; and Leslie was fascinated. No one had ever told me about Christianity before. Not really. Here we are in our late twenties at the time. She just soaked it up.

And so she came to me in the fall of 1973 and said, “Lee, I’ve made a big decision. I’ve become a follower of Jesus Christ.” I thought this was the worst possible thing that could happen to our marriage. I thought we were gonna get divorced. I felt like I’d married one Leslie and now she’s changed into something else. I wasn’t ready for that. I didn’t want that. And I said, “Look, if you can’t face life on your own two feet, if you have to out your faith in a book of mythology and bad history and make-believe, then you go ahead and do that. But, number one, don’t give them any of our money, because that’s what they’re after; and, number two, don’t try to get me to go because I’m too smart for that.”

So I decided to take my legal training and my journalism training and investigate: is there any credibility to Christianity? I would do what I did at the Chicago Tribune. I would check out stories to see if they were true, if they could be printed in the papers. So I would investigate. I went out, and I applied those skills to the question of, ” Who is Jesus Christ?” I didn’t do it with an antagonist attitude; I did it with a journalist’s attitude…I said, “Give me the facts. I’m going to look at both sides, I’m going to look at other world religions.” And I began to do that. And it was an amazing journey: to look at other faith systems and see the internal contradictions that, to me, disqualified them from being true. And yet to see in Christianity, as I looked into the historical evidence for Jesus, as I looked at the reliability of the New Testament, as I looked at the fulfillment of Old Testament prophesies in the New Testament, as I looked at the resurrection: very powerful evidence. And I looked at some of the most brilliant legal minds of history: Simon Greenleaf of Harvard, Sir Lionel Luck, who, the Guinness Book of World Records describes as the most successful lawyer in the history of the world (had more murder trials won in a row than any other defense attorney ever). These are brilliant people who have applied the laws of evidence to the resurrection accounts and walked away convinced that they are true.

My big hang-up was that it was legend…that this was a legend that grew up a long time after Jesus…and then I found a very interesting fact that to me was one of the pivotal facts in my investigation. There is a passage in the Bible, 1 Corinthians 15:3, that is a creed recited by the earliest Christians that Paul is providing there for the Corinthians; and in fact he refers to the fact that he already has provided this, “This what I received, I pass on to you.” In other words he says this is tradition that I am now formally passing on to you, and it affirms the essentials of Christianity. That Jesus died for our sins. That he was buried and resurrected on the third day and he mentions the eyewitnesses to whom he appears.

It mentions skeptics like James and Paul. This Creed can be dated back by scholars from a wide range of theological belief to within 2 years to sixty months after the resurrection itself. This is an extremely early account that Paul is preserving for us. It’s not his words…he’s passing this along. And when you look at Sherwin White, the great classical historian from Oxford- Cambridge (he did studies about the rate at which legends grew up in the ancient world, and he found that two generations of time was not enough for legend to grow up and thoroughly destroy a solid core of historical truth). And yet here you have something not two generations of time…but that goes back to within two to five years of the events themselves. And the statements in that creed (which were affirmed that it was given by Paul by the witnesses themselves, Peter and James), goes back to the cross itself, to the eyewitness accounts. So there has never been a legend in so short time. In 1844 a historian said, “I challenge anyone anywhere to come up with any example in history where legend grew up that fast and thoroughly destroyed or distorted solid, historical belief…it has never happened that anyone has been able to find.” That was very powerful to me. It told me that this wasn’t wishful thinking, it wasn’t legendary development. This was something that we had a creed of the early church that goes right back to the events themselves, virtually; and, therefore, was very fresh and trustworthy in terms of what it conveys…and when you look at the other aspects of the empty tomb, the eyewitness accounts, the early nature, the extra-biblical evidence, the emergence of the early church…I call them the five Es…you look at all that together; and that’s a very powerful case for the resurrection.

So I did this investigation for almost 2 years of my life: looking at evidence inside the Bible, outside the Bible. One of my favorite things: I found 110 facts outside the Bible recorded in ancient history that confirmed (and again these are many things some are higher quality than others, most are somewhat questionable) that form together a very powerful corroborative aspect. One of them, my favorite, is a guy named Thalus, who was a Greek historian in the first century, who wrote a history of the Eastern Mediterranean world in 52AD. So this is right after Jesus’ life. Thalus was not a believer and Thalus’ works have actually been lost; but in the year 221, a guy named Julius Africanus quotes Thalus, and Thalus had written about the darkness that fell over the Earth during the crucifixion of Jesus Christ. Now when I had seen that Bible verse, I remember thinking, “Don’t you think someone other than Mathew, Mark, Luke or John would have noticed this.” And Thalus not only recorded it, but he tried to explain it away as being an eclipse of the sun. Which, given the timing of the Crucifixion, it could not have been. And I thought Thalus’ was a weak historical claim; but the more you investigate Thalus you find that’s a very powerful bit of corroborative evidence and it’s not the only bit. There’s other references to the darkness outside the Bible. I just had a great time as a journalist investigating all this stuff. On the plus side, journalists respond to evidence; the negative side is I tended to be an observer, I was never a participant, I was the critical observer. I didn’t join anything; I kept things at arms length. So the idea of making a commitment to God was alien to me; and yet the evidence was so powerful that on November 8, 1981 (after spending two years of checking this out) I just realized that in light of this torrent of evidence that points so powerfully towards Christianity, it would have required more faith to retain my atheism than to become a Christian. Because to maintain my atheism I would have had to defy the evidence. To become a Christian, I just had to make a step of faith in the same direction that the evidence was pointing. That’s logical, that’s rational, and that’s what I did.

On that day I repented of my sin, which took quite a while, and gave my life to Christ. I thought maybe my wife would be interested in the fact that I just did this; so I thought I’d tell her. So I came out and was walking down the hallway and turned into our kitchen, and my wife was standing there with our daughter who was almost five; and our daughter was standing in front of her reaching up and touching the faucet, for the first time…that’s how tall she was. And she said, “Daddy, look I can touch it. I can reach it.” And I said, “Oh wow you’re getting so big.” And I gave her a hug, and she ran off; and I said to my wife, “That’s how I feel! I feel for a year and nine months I’ve been reaching out and reaching out, and I just touched Jesus Christ. It’s real and it’s true, and I just gave my life to him.” She started crying and said, “You hardhearted son-of-a-*&#, I’ve been telling you this for two years.” And it had turned out that she had met some women in her church, and she told them about her husband who is a hard-hearted, hard-headed journalist that she didn’t have much hope for, and they said we’ll pray this verse Ezekiel 33:23 [the correct citation is 36:26]. It says more over, “I will give you a new heart and I will put a new spirit within you. I’ll remove your heart of stone, and I will give you a heart of flesh.” And she said, “I’ve been praying that every day for two years.” And God began to answer that prayer as I opened my life to him and yielded myself to him, began to seek to follow his ways; and, now, empowered by the Holy Spirit, my attitudes, my philosophy, my worldview, my professional standards, my marriage, my job…everything began to change so much so that my little daughter Alison had only known in her first five years a dad that was angry. I remember…so frustrated from work one day and I kicked the wall and I put my foot right through the wall, anger over life and frustration…that’s all she knew of her dad. I’d come home drunk or I would come home angry and that’s all she had known. And then five or six months after I became a Christian, having seen how God changed my attitudes and my life, she came up to my wife and said, “Mommy, I want God to do for me what he did for daddy.” She gave her life to Christ at age five and now has graduated from college and is now in the ministry, trying to reach this next generation; and my son is now going to seminary, he graduated from bible college this year and is going to seminary here in California in the fall to study philosophy and religion.

My whole life has changed: my attitude, my family, all of our eternities.

https://youtu.be/ZC7ifE3NLkc

Team.710- Mission and Values

About a month ago, our team met together to pray and revisit our mission and values. We wanted to really think about what we do, and how we do it, especially because our teaching team has grown to 16 people, and we have many new people this year.

Here are the results of that day.

What is faith?

Our family is studying faith at our dinner table. 5 different aspects of what it means to have faith in God. 


Faith is Christ-centered, cross-centered belief. Two weeks ago we focused on it isn’t ‘believing’ in Jesus that is important- it is what we believe about Jesus. Do we agree with the claims he made about himself? Do we agree that He is the son of God and that he was raised from the dead? This is a crucial aspect of being a person of faith.


Faith is trusting God for the future. This last week we talked about how faith is trusting God for our tomorrows. In every circumstance, we can trust him. When we feel afraid of what is to come, or we are unsure, or we know a difficult time might be around the corner, being a person of faith means trusting in God to see us through.


Faith is assurance in the present. This coming week we will look at faith as having assurance in the present, no matter if it is a good experience in our lives, or a difficult one, we can be assured that God will use every circumstance for the good of those who love him.

Reflections on Proverbs – Part 3


So it is important to consider, as a follower of Christ, what does it mean to be the covenant faithful in the world today? Wisdom and covenant faithfulness have to do with individual lives as they relate to the community of faith and our role in the world.

In Deuteronomy 6 Moses challenges the people to keep God’s commandments so that it may go well with them, they are also to teach them to their children and not forget; especially when they come into the Promised Land and there is the temptation of the gods around them they need to be faithful to God. A significant part of the passage of Deut 6 talks about how when their children ask them why they should follow the law, they are to tell about God’s deliverance and power and how he gave them the commandments for their lasting good to keep them alive. Proverbs 1:2-7 also refers to the fact that the proverbs are given so that the people (both simple and wise) will basically learn to live in community in a ‘righteous, just and equitable’ way. Why should they live like that? The same reason that God gave them the covenant, for their good! Deuteronomy 28 contrasts the different results between whether the people stay faithful to the covenant or if they turn away, there will either be life or death. Again there is the dichotomy between the two. Deuteronomy 28 and Proverbs line up so well beside each other because they show that choosing God’s way leads to life, but choosing the way of the foolish leads to death. However, is it just life for the individual or death for the individual? No, it is community-wide. God judges Israel as a whole and blesses them as a whole, in the same way, our actions do not only affect us but they affect the whole.

This leads into the thought that in both Proverbs and the passages of Deuteronomy following God’s covenant will affect every area of their life, from the food they eat to their enemies around them. Likewise, if they are not faithful to God’s covenant with them then they will experience judgement in every area of their lives from their children, to their harvests, to their enemies, and even their reputation.  Being faithful to God’s covenant was much bigger than simply obeying God’s commandments regarding the temple and the sacrifices; being faithful to God’s covenant had to do with their heart. “Choose life so that you and your descendants may live, loving the Lord your God, obeying him, and holding fast to him; for that means life to you and length of days, so that you may live in the land that the Lord swore to give to your ancestors, to Abraham, to Isaac, and to Jacob.” (Deut 30:19b-20)  It would affect all the areas of their life. Proverbs 1:2-7 also encompasses all areas of life, because they are about learning about wisdom, gaining instruction about wise dealing, righteousness, justice, and equity, teaching shrewdness, knowledge, prudence, learning and acquiring skill. If I put these in today’s terminology they would say: business, morality, law, economics, common (street) sense, education, rhetoric, trades.

 So what does it mean to be the ‘covenant faithful’ today? It means that I allow God’s wisdom to affect every area of my life. Moreover, I need to look at how my actions affect the bigger picture; not just myself but my community. I need to be faithful to God not only in Spirit but in action and obedience to what He calls me to in His Word.  This is what wisdom really is, letting God’s Spirit and timeless truths in His Word shape how I live, not to only agree in my head but to put feet to my actions. Also, I need to realize that my actions affect my community and that God desires that I have a positive affect on my community. I am responsible for how my community lives in some way.

I have to admit that I am not very good at this, my decisions usually only consider myself and maybe Ben and the kids. If I am tired, I don’t think about how my negative down attitude could affect my coworkers. My pride actually stems from individualism, and not a community mindset, because I am more concerned about building myself up than others. If I was truly more community oriented and kingdom focused, and I saw something that I judged that could be done better, I would find a way to help without having to take credit for the improvement. I am focused on living a life that is pleasing to God by: having integrity, being faithful to my husband, having time set apart with God, prayer, and other ‘disciplines’. I see that these things are all very ‘me’ focused and, though not wrong in themselves, they need to be balanced with actions that build up others and the community that I live in.

Deuteronomy Chapter 6- These are the commands, decrees and laws the Lord your God directed me to teach you to observe in the land that you are crossing the Jordan to possess, so that you, your children and their children after them may fear the Lord your God as long as you live by keeping all his decrees and commands that I give you, and so that you may enjoy long life.  Hear, Israel, and be careful to obey so that it may go well with you and that you may increase greatly in a land flowing with milk and honey, just as the Lord, the God of your ancestors,  promised you.  Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one.  Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates.

When the Lord your God brings you into the land he swore to your fathers, to Abraham, Isaac and Jacob, to give you—a land with large, flourishing cities you did not build,  houses filled with all kinds of good things you did not provide, wells you did not dig, and vineyards and olive groves you did not plant—then when you eat and are satisfied, be careful that you do not forget the Lord, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery.

Fear the Lord your God, serve him only and take your oaths in his name. Do not follow other gods, the gods of the peoples around you; for the Lord your God, who is among you, is a jealous God and his anger will burn against you, and he will destroy you from the face of the land. Do not put the Lord your God to the test as you did at Massah. Be sure to keep the commands of the Lord your God and the stipulations and decrees he has given you. Do what is right and good in the Lord’s sight, so that it may go well with you and you may go in and take over the good land the Lord promised on oath to your ancestors, thrusting out all your enemies before you, as the Lord said. In the future, when your son asks you, “What is the meaning of the stipulations, decrees and laws the Lord our God has commanded you?” tell him: “We were slaves of Pharaoh in Egypt, but the Lord brought us out of Egypt with a mighty hand. Before our eyes the Lord sent signs and wonders—great and terrible—on Egypt and Pharaoh and his whole household. But he brought us out from there to bring us in and give us the land he promised on oath to our ancestors. The Lord commanded us to obey all these decrees and to fear the Lord our God, so that we might always prosper and be kept alive, as is the case today.  And if we are careful to obey all this law before the Lord our God, as he has commanded us, that will be our righteousness.”